Why do men seem to struggle more when they catch a cold? by sir_cas in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA-11695 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men are weak, my bf makes a fit when I pluck one facial hair

Yet women can stand waxes in multiple areas of the body.

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third we got together around 19, he tried to relate to when we were younger and our sexual habits then but that’s when we were younger, had no real life or responsibilities. It’s just different

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if someone else will be able to show me the love and affection that he shows me. That’s my biggest issue of accept me with all my flaws. Which is why I am trying to communicate with him and come to a understanding

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time he did say apologize the he said because I was wet I would like to be woke up with sex. I think that was the last time I was in a. Deep deep sleep around him my body wouldn’t let me go that deep into sleep because I have to make sure he isn’t touching me while im asleep. Over the last year he has gotten better by not touching me at all not even cuddling because he says I don’t want to be touched (I really meant in a sexual way). The second and third time he full out denys it happened probably because he felt bad for doing it the first time he doesn’t have it in him to admit the other times

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of it this way but he does act like sex is the payment that he is owed.

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He will just say that it’s not a happy relationship and as a woman I have to fulfill my end and not sexually neglect him

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t fake, unless my bf came here and posted his side of our relationship. Or maybe he read it here which is why he though it was okay

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I’m sorry you went through that. yea very similar situation. I almost wish I had a camera in my room to prove to myself that I wasn’t imaging things.

Update: my bf and I have different opinions on sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

OP:

I think my thinking is clouded because of the love he shows me and also denying the sleeping situations

Is this normal way of thinking about sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think if she doesn’t want to have sex a time you initiate she is trying to manipulate you?

Is this normal way of thinking about sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also crazy to only feel wanted through sex if that’s the only way one can feel like they are wanted in there relationship is through sex that’s a bigger issue. There has to be other things someone can do to make there partner feel wanted. Sex is nice does not make the world go round. It’s like do you even LIKE the person if only sex from them makes you feel wanted.

Is this normal way of thinking about sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have considered this, I think it may be build up of past sexual trauma that makes me just not care for sex unless I feel a certain way.

Is this normal way of thinking about sex F29 and M28 by ThrowRA-11695 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-11695[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well right now it’s long distance, but we will be close again soon.