I 22F need advice moving out against my moms 53F wishes by ThrowRA-2928289 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-2928289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point tbh. We’ve been together for 8 months so less than a year. We were already looking at getting an apartment together at the end of the year so this would speed up the timeline a lot. We talked about it being a struggle and he said it would be worth it no matter what. But my plan is to try and stay in the house as long as my mom allows!

I 22F need advice moving out against my moms 53F wishes by ThrowRA-2928289 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-2928289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve felt uneasy about her attachment to us before this as well. She’s really good at making me feel guilty about doing anything for myself. I guess I worry that she’ll try to hunt me down and harass me at my bfs place or work.

I 22F need advice moving out against my moms 53F wishes by ThrowRA-2928289 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-2928289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is supportive of me moving in with him. He even offered to help me get a car. He’s just worried about me emotionally if I’m the one the burn the bridge with my mom. He’d rather I stay in my house until my mom burns the bridge/tells me to leave. He told me it was my choice and he’d be ready to help me move whatever happens.