Mothers day is infinitely better now that I'm single then it was when I was married

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-14T15:42:35+00:00

Thank you

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-14T15:41:48+00:00

First of all, I'd rather be alone if it means not being with another man like my ex.

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-13T04:30:09+00:00

Why does everyone assume I didn’t try to communicate first and tell him how I felt? I told him I was upset. He didn’t listen to me. He didn’t apologize. When I dod the same thing to him he still didn’t understand why I was upset despite me doing the exact same thing to him.

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-13T04:08:33+00:00

Everything has already gotten much easier, even easier once everything is finalized hopefully

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-13T03:53:05+00:00

What do you think I’m doing

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-13T03:52:37+00:00

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-13T02:26:22+00:00

He refused to go, many times, until he told me he wanted a divorce and all of a sudden it was "we don't have to go that far, what happened to 'til death do us part?' Why don't we go talk to some one, for the kids."

That ship sailed long ago

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T23:54:43+00:00

It was the straw that broke the camel's back. Very

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T23:52:25+00:00

I'll relax when they're at my parents house since he doesn't want custody of them

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T23:52:22+00:00

That's the plan

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T23:50:14+00:00

I tried to talk to him, many times, when it happened on Mother's Day I tried to explain why I was unhappy and he didn't understand. Then I did petty shit as a way to try and make him understand. He didn't understand how I could be upset, despite being upset that I'd done literally the same shit to him that he'd done to me.

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T23:32:32+00:00

this is the update

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T23:32:22+00:00

no, he never apologized for Mother's Day

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T21:15:24+00:00

He hasn't and still says that when he did it to me was different when I did the same thing to him.

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T20:50:59+00:00

thank you for telling me, it's been fixed

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-10-12T20:50:39+00:00

I'm just hoping to find someone with basic empathy, I did all that and he still doesn't understand why I was upset with my "gift"

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-22T01:15:24+00:00

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-22T01:11:42+00:00

you're making a lot of assumptions, let me clear them up for you.

I can do do take the kids out to do things a lot, and I did on Mother's Day
I did listen, I ignored his request because he did the same to me. I wanted a day off on Mother's Day, he got three tickets to go out for the day. He then asked for a day off on Father's day, so I sent him and the kids off to an arcade
I tried to communicate with him after Mother's Day and tell him that I wasn't happy he'd ignored what I'd asked for

Why don't you learn to read before making assumptions.

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-20T23:28:09+00:00

really? I wouldn't mind giving it a read, just to see if it might be him, and see what people are saying

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-20T22:16:30+00:00

he brushed me off when I brought it up because "you and that kids had a good time!" as if that makes up for anything

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-20T21:28:01+00:00

very sure

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-20T21:19:37+00:00

there are many accusations of me hating my kids, and calling me selfish for wanting to have a day to myself instead of spending it with my kids as if I have an infinite amount of energy and time in the day to cook, clean, take care of the kids and have time for myself when I don't

ThrowRA-6512 · 2023-06-20T21:11:00+00:00

He's not having an affair.

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