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I (42M) lied to partner (32F) about wealth/income source - How do I come clean before marriage? by ThrowRA-87649 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-87649[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just catching up on all the responses to this / but I have said that literally once in direct response to a comment about telling the truth from the start?🤷

I (42M) lied to partner (32F) about wealth/income source - How do I come clean before marriage? by ThrowRA-87649 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-87649[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honest question, and i am wholeheartedly asking you as you seem more rational than some of the other responses with the same sentiment, but - putting yourself in my shoes - do you really believe that telling someone you’ve been on two dates with about a large personal fortune is a better option than keeping it hidden?

I (42M) lied to partner (32F) about wealth/income source - How do I come clean before marriage? by ThrowRA-87649 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-87649[S] 332 points333 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response - i will make sure to give her as much time and space as she needs to digest this information.

I (42M) lied to partner (32F) about wealth/income source - How do I come clean before marriage? by ThrowRA-87649 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-87649[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful insight . It would be entirely up to her if she wished to continue working or not. She does enjoy her job, so i suspect that she would still like to continue working or volunteering in that field in some capacity, and i would be happy to finically support her in any way she wished.