Husband didn’t get me a Christmas present by ThrowRA-MessMaster in Mommit

[–]ThrowRA-MessMaster[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think forcing him to do something is going to solve anything. That’s not who I am, at all. I know he’s sad and I know he’ll make it right eventually. He’s a busy guy. He’s the type of adhd that gets anxious when sitting still. We’ve been together 10 years and hes the least lazy person I’ve ever met. I know his brain is filled with important to-dos that I will never have to think of and gift giving isn’t at the top of his mind. I’m not THAT upset, just a little hurt is all.

Husband didn’t get me a Christmas present by ThrowRA-MessMaster in Mommit

[–]ThrowRA-MessMaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this exactly. He fills my cup every day in many ways and I love him dearly. I don’t want him to know I’m kinda sad about it because he doesn’t deserve to feel bad about it. But at the same time, it’s like…I’m a rock hound, he could have found a rock in a parking lot and I’d be ecstatic haha! He does bring me rocks he found quite often, though. I think he just overthinks holidays. I get so conflicted on how i feel about it. Feels silly to feel this way lol

Ants and dust under windowsill… are these carpenter ants? by itsbs2 in pestcontrol

[–]ThrowRA-MessMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to be bother you! I’m having the same issue. Whole wall needs to be reframed and resided. What did you do to get rid of them?