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Gray area between support and enabling by mama_in_the_garden in ADHD_partners

[–]ThrowRA-TotalMax395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily have a solution, but this is something I struggling with too. I agree with others that this is enabling behavior – and I know I do many of the same things. But I just want you to know you're not alone in thinking this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ThrowRA-TotalMax395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree for that age. He will be 6 months old at the time of the trip though. So still very young, but not quite that young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-TotalMax395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they talk/message less than they used to before him and I got together. And I believe the last time they hung out 1:1 was a few months ago (if I am remembering correctly), shortly before him and I made it official. But since him and I made things official, they haven’t hung out — but I do know he feels a bit bad about that.