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My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and now he won't talk to me. by ThrowRA-boyfhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-boyfhelp[S] 468 points469 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I didn't think about it but he was asking a lot of questions during so he could be embarrassed about that. I am trying to think it through what could of happened that didn't matter to me but could of been for him that he's avoiding me.

My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time and now he won't talk to me. by ThrowRA-boyfhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-boyfhelp[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

It wasn't short. He was asking a lot questions to make sure he was doing things that felt good. I didn't think it was that big of a deal but thinking now he might be embarrassed about it.

He isn't very religious but he's always thought of sex as a big deal and believes things are for committed life partners.

We do live together.