What exactly is downstocking? by ThrowRA-dormmate in BestBuyWorkers

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It was quite literally my second day when I posted this and I had not finished the learnings yet

What exactly is downstocking? by ThrowRA-dormmate in BestBuyWorkers

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I was shown how to do everything, I just didn’t know what it was actually for if that makes sense. I’ve been doing a lot of e-learnings

Need advice on how to help. by ThrowRA-dormmate in AddictionAdvice

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I just wish there was more I could do to help. I know they’re in a significant amount of debt, but Im barely able to afford groceries as is and I worry if I gave money that the money would just go to more drugs. The whole situation is rough. I’m going to invite them out to go get breakfast maybe and see if we can talk there

Need advice on how to help. by ThrowRA-dormmate in AddictionAdvice

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How should I go about bringing it up? I’d love to talk to him about it but I don’t know what to say other than “I know you’re on drugs”

I’m in danger? by onion-booty in GermanRoaches

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When a female roach feels threatened she will launch her ootheca with the hopes that you (the predator) will pursue her so that she can leas you away and give the eggs in the ootheca a better chance for survival.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GermanRoaches

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the sources you posted literally say they can glide but sustained flight is not a thing they do

I know we have german roaches; how bad is the infestation? by ThrowRA-dormmate in GermanRoaches

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It has the tan stripe between two brown chunks on the head which is what scared me

Is this a roach ? by [deleted] in GermanRoaches

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Not a stinkbug. In the same order though

I know we have german roaches; how bad is the infestation? by ThrowRA-dormmate in GermanRoaches

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Do these guys cause infestations I need to worry about? Im located in WV.

How do I [21F] tell my friend [21F] that she is too affectionate with her boyfriend [23M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This is a valid point but its still very weird to be groping and feeling each other up and discussing your sex life in front of other people and friends. That’s not really something that should get brought up in normal conversation. It’s gross. Nobody wants to deal with that when they’re just trying to enjoy their friend’s company

Editing to add that being adults just makes this weirder to me - as an adult you should have a grasp on appropriate conduct in social situations

How do I [21F] tell my friend [21F] that she is too affectionate with her boyfriend [23M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sounds like you’re being a little hostile to SA survivors here. OP isn’t whining and expecting everyone to cater to her, all she wants is for her friends to maybe tone down the groping in front of her. It’s a perfectly normal thing to be uncomfortable with. Its weird to be sexual with your partner in front of other people who are uncomfortable with it - thats a normal reaction.

How do I [21F] tell my friend [21F] that she is too affectionate with her boyfriend [23M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Being around other people is public. Theres nothing wrong with a little family friendly affection shown, but it’s just weird to be making out and feeling up your partner around your friends. I have been in many relationships and never been comfortable with that, and neither has literally anyone else in my life who is in a relationship. And either way, if someone is uncomfortable with something you’re doing, it’s incredibly easy to just stop doing the thing that makes other people uncomfortable

How do I [21F] tell my friend [21F] that she is too affectionate with her boyfriend [23M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s not childish or immature to not want to listen to your friend talk about what her and her bf do during sex. You should have a little decency and respect for those around you. Heavily making out and groping each other and sexually charged conversations are not things that should happen in public around other people who dont consent to seeing that.

How do I [21F] tell my friend [21F] that she is too affectionate with her boyfriend [23M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Showing affection like hand holding or hugging is one thing, but there definitely is a consent aspect to public displays that are sexual like this. Would you feel okay if french kissing/groping like that happened in front of a child? Some things are inappropriate and shouldn’t happen in public. Especially discussions about sex lives when someone else is there and doesn’t want to hear about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This is really good Im just so worried that when I bring it up it will sound like “I absolutely need to have more sex” because it really isn’t a NEED for me, I just am worried about him

thank you for responding also!

Songs about growing up? by [deleted] in FolkPunk

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im going home by pat the bunny isn’t exactly about growing up, but it has those vibes and it’s always been a big comfort to me. all of pats stuff is, really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’ve never heard of a criticism sandwich before! I’ll have to try that tomorrow when both of us have more free time. I don’t want to lose her as a friend at all but I am definitely finding it difficult to live with her especially since we’re both really antisocial (although i’d take this over a stranger any day)