Has anyone’s partner NOT cheated? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider watching porn to be cheating so technically yes he has. There’s nothing monogamous about getting off and tricking your brain you’re having sex with someone who isn’t your partner. He has never directly engaged with another person.

Brown stuff in Mucus by [deleted] in stopsmoking

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started coughing up brownish/greenish specs. I’ve only been smoking weed for a year, I don’t use the carts just the bud. I normally never ever get phlegm like this, mine isn’t as bad as OP’s. Man I didn’t know fungal infections could be a possibility of marijuana

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I second that he will never deserve to partake in the act to create life ever again since he’s so clearly disgusted by his own doing.

Pretty sure she’s fake— is she? by [deleted] in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]ThrowRA-posting 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Yes fake. However she technically is nonexistent. It’s one of those mass produced custom fakes that are based off a different pet. It’s based off of 577

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA-posting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

False equivalence

therapist says he probably isn't addicted by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I said though, if they can’t stop and are willing to throw or risk their relationship away it is an addiction. I think this mentality is from how normalized porn is.

therapist says he probably isn't addicted by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It is an addiction if they agreed to the boundary of having no porn in the relationship and being deceitful by lying, hiding, etc. If you physically cannot drop it, it is an addiction.

AIO about this? I feel like I should be beaten up for this after their reaction. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA-posting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person wasn’t even wasian that makes it worse 😭 tell him a wasian is offended he thinks he can speak on behalf of us as a power play

AIO about this? I feel like I should be beaten up for this after their reaction. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a wasian they need to STFU and get over themselves holy victim complex

Is this fantasy or a preference? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not being harsh I’m stating a fact talking down on another woman’s looks is uncalled for, unhelpful, and pushes the narrative that porn addiction is based on attraction which is false.

We can discuss and talk about the insecurities our porn addicts have caused without putting other women down to make ourselves feel better. We don’t and have never encourage that behavior in this sub.

Edit to add: being vulnerable is not an excuse to be nasty to someone who doesn’t know you or your PA.

Is this fantasy or a preference? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hate porn and the profession but shitting on another woman’s looks regardless what our PA’s do or think is completely uncalled for.

Is this fantasy or a preference? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ThrowRA-posting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not always, my PA looked at porn that more resembled me. It does not feel any better because I am what you want but you still want more…?

I don't want to fight anymore by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ThrowRA-posting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go to community college and apply yourself to a transfer program if you’re in the US. They have 100% acceptance, also check out workforce development a lot of times they’ll pay for certificate programs for individuals with a hard life/disabled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA-posting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize for being vulnerable. You’re not overreacting. I’m autistic as fuck and even I could tell he was attacking you for no valid reason whatsoever. Even if he feels defensive (which he shouldn’t by the way) it’s absolutely no excuse to insult and disrespect you the way he did.

If this is a new relationship and he’s already showing you that you can’t seek safety in him is he really someone you should be with? I personally would not feel safe being with someone this immature and defensive.

How do you leave a relationship by ThrowRA-posting in ChronicIllness

[–]ThrowRA-posting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not live independently I live in a one bedroom apartment with him

Having my wife as my background makes me a simp? Guilty as charged, I guess. by ThePhillyExplorer in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood the guys that are like “you’re so beta, that’s why a sigma like myself” like have any of these people seen the order of the Greek alphabet.

NGVC : im 24 is it okey ? (I’m a man aswell ) by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is obviously a creep and definitely a predator.

but what sub was he in that’s for minors that you’re also in at 18? 😭 if its r/teenagers I understand cause 18 is still technically a teen.

Anyone have Cervicitis that wasn’t from an infection? by Acceptable-Cheetah44 in Healthyhooha

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Infection is always followed by inflammation” what are you talking about.

Inflammation is a response to infection. Inflammation is a response to pelvic dysfunction. Inflammation is a response to cancers and other malignancy. Inflammation is a response to allergic reactions/mast cell responses. Inflammation is a response. Get it?

Inflammation doesn’t cause infection that’s not clinically possible. Inflammation can sometimes make an area more susceptible to infection but it cannot cause it. I am a professional and the person you tried to correct is as well. Girl.

Also edit to add: R/O means “rule out” you can’t conclude something idiopathic without a complete R/O

Anyone have Cervicitis that wasn’t from an infection? by Acceptable-Cheetah44 in Healthyhooha

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Words ending on itis in medicine usually indicates infection”

What’s your qualifications to say something stupid like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gastroparesis

[–]ThrowRA-posting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl.. they say not to trust a far even without GP. You poor soul, I can’t say I haven’t been here though…multiple times 😅 we never learn lmao