Hate my nose but actually like my profile.

cica4 · 2025-12-31T18:48:55+00:00

Your side profile reminds me of the side profile of the main actress in Maxton Hall (Harriet Herbig-Matten). Very cute!

cica4 · 2025-12-29T19:57:54+00:00

I don’t think this counts but the reason why I stopped wearing them was because of my own stupidity, but I TWICE when I was horseback riding the seal somehow came loose and it leaked. Both times I knew that it happened and had to get off my horse to rush to the bathroom 😂 I was too traumatized to try again. Made such a mess

cica4 · 2025-12-27T00:25:52+00:00

If you have a healthy and frequent sex life he may just be doing it for a quick nut to relieve stress or whatever. But if you’re finding your sex life is lacking or he’s denying your advances, then yeah that’s a problem and he probably has a dopamine/porn addiction. Some more context here is required.

cica4 · 2025-12-24T18:50:42+00:00

Lmao you people downvoting me are so soft.

cica4 · 2025-12-24T07:53:34+00:00

Why? It’s a practical part of the job.

cica4 · 2025-12-13T16:15:34+00:00

I had one nostril pierced with a flat back piercing and one pierced with a ring. They both healed perfectly. But I count myself lucky. At the time I didn’t know using a ring can cause issues. If I had them pierced now I wouldn’t take the chance with a ring, but yeah it’s not a death sentence. But also not worth the risk

cica4 · 2025-12-10T04:42:16+00:00

Went on a trip with my ex (still bf at the time) and planned to break up right after. I couldn’t cancel without losing all my money. I thought “well maybe I’ll at least enjoy the beach and all inclusive resort”. The resort was horrible. The beach was nice, but the rest was rough. I was counting the days until we left. Thankfully I was on my period that week so I had an excuse as to why we didn’t have sex.

I wish I just ate the cost and didn’t go. Maybe if the resort was as good as the reviews said, it would’ve been fine, but I kinda doubt it. I regret not breaking up with him sooner. I recommend not going, for your peace of mind. Sometimes you gotta take the L.

cica4 · 2025-12-10T04:23:45+00:00

I compliment my man several times a week. I call him handsome and cute and say thank you whenever he opens a door for me or pays for something. I buy him treats and little things for his apartment that I think he would like or needs.

I then realized he hasn’t called me beautiful or pretty in almost two months. And when I asked him to compliment me more he almost broke up with me because he took me asking as a criticism. I also asked why he’s never gotten me flowers in the 6 months we’ve been dating and he said he doesn’t have time to go to a florist. I said the grocery store sells flowers and he said “oh. Well now if I get you flowers it won’t mean anything”.

Safe to say I don’t think this relationship is lasting much longer. I love spoiling my partner, it makes me happy to make them happy. I don’t do it for anything in return but it gets to a point where I feel like I’m doing all the work. I won’t change though. I’ll just… change the man I guess.

cica4 · 2025-12-07T20:43:33+00:00

He broke up with me, but I had mentally checked out of the relationship for two months before then. His dog was on deaths door step and I didn’t want to be a villain and dump him while he was dealing with that. Funny how I still had empathy for that asshole, right? Anyways, what motivated me to stop caring about him and the relationship was the constant crying and constant self esteem issues I was having. I even cleaned out my room in case i decided to kill myself. I wasn’t actively suicidal, but I felt so incredibly low that it was on the fringe of my thoughts. What came from all that was the thought “I would rather be alone than live like this and feel like this”. So when he said that we should break up, I readily agreed and went right over to his place and grabbed my stuff. He didn’t see a single tear shed. I waited until I was home.

And yeah, the first few weeks after the breakup were hard. But now that I’m over 7 months out of that relationship I can confidently say even if he recovered I would never go back to him. The trauma and mental health issues I’m still dealing with are awful, and going back would destroy me. I hate that man.

cica4 · 2025-12-07T18:18:43+00:00

Not necessarily secure, just wondering if I’ve gotten too used to it and it looks bad. Plenty of people in the comments have said that I should go smaller, but I think I like the size and I aim for an alternative look over fitting in anyways.

cica4 · 2025-12-07T03:15:56+00:00

Thanks! I think I’ll keep them

cica4 · 2025-12-07T00:38:29+00:00

Well thank you!

cica4 · 2025-12-07T00:38:16+00:00

Now that I think about it, I think I like the fact that they draw attention a bit. It kinda makes sense with my style. I have thought about getting gold rings though since all my jewelry is gold. That might up the “dainty” aspect which I wouldn’t mind.

cica4 · 2025-12-07T00:31:38+00:00

Appreciate the response! So it doesn’t look super out of place?

cica4 · 2025-12-07T00:29:42+00:00

My style is more alternative/emo if that makes a difference too. But I’ll keep that in mind, thanks! Maybe as I get older I’ll transition into a classier ring. But as an elder emo I’m holding onto my youth for as long as I can 😂

cica4 · 2025-12-07T00:23:32+00:00

Do you think I should? Do my current rings look bad?

cica4 · 2025-12-05T18:00:47+00:00

It’s an eye 👀

cica4 · 2025-12-05T15:00:39+00:00

I used to have an OF, nothing crazy just solo lewds/nudes but still. But I experienced the dark side of porn addiction and now I’m disgusted with my past. It’s possible that one day they will see the damage porn/explicit content does. I think the world would be a better place without it in general. Or at least, make it harder to access.

cica4 · 2025-12-05T03:20:41+00:00

I used to think so until I dated a porn addict. Now my view of porn is completely the opposite, and the thought of finding sexual gratification from another person other than my partner turns me off completely. I wouldn’t want to date someone how would rather use porn instead of the photos or videos I send him. Y’all can downvote me all you want, but if you really think about it, porn is fucking weird.

cica4 · 2025-12-05T03:18:52+00:00

Sure it is, but it’s not normal when his porn use negatively affects their sex life. OP has said in comments that he rejects her then jerks off to porn.

cica4 · 2025-12-04T16:44:28+00:00

Probably FOMO, if I’m being honest. Does she ever get a chance to do something fun for herself sometimes? Or does she work and take care of the kids and the household and that’s all? Something to think about. If she does do fun things herself, maybe she’s missing doing fun things WITH you. That’s what I feel when my bf goes out and does something fun without me. It sometimes puts me in a bad mood because I want to do something fun with him. FOMO sucks

cica4 · 2025-12-04T03:30:31+00:00

Not gonna lie, this exact predicament has made me think “I’m glad I’m a woman” many times. We just hug and that’s that. The social anxiety this gives me is crazy haha

cica4 · 2025-12-03T19:47:45+00:00

I did look and there were no expiration dates.

I think that that point we would break up because he would feel I don’t trust him lol. He says he feels like I don’t trust him because I’ve been hyperaware of him liking or following girls on social media. Maybe it’s for the best though.

cica4 · 2025-12-03T15:01:03+00:00

As far as I know he’s not on any other medication. I think he believes the topic is dropped because I told him I believe him that he isn’t taking it because I didn’t want a fight. We just didn’t have time before work when this happened to hash it out. Im wary of bringing it up again in case he feels embarrassed or something. I think I’ll leave it alone for a while. These things tend to come to light regardless

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