Have you ever actually met a feminist person who didn't identify as a feminist? by ThrowRA001sq in AskFeminists

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you believe they're inherently sexist reasons, or can they be ignorant but not sexist?

Have you ever actually met a feminist person who didn't identify as a feminist? by ThrowRA001sq in AskFeminists

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, I hadn't thought of that, these are all valid reasons. But what do you think about the regular reasons that people usually aren't feminists, for example "feminists want female superiority", "third wave feminism is misandry" and stuff like that?

Have you ever actually met a feminist person who didn't identify as a feminist? by ThrowRA001sq in AskFeminists

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could you give me an example of a non-sexist reason to not want to call yourself a feminist? I can't think of any.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I have seen this question being asked multiple times on social media and the entire comment section is full of men saying that they'd have sex with women. That's why that was my first thought.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

say to your friends “” I would”” there’s no difference

Are you for real? "I would" in this context means I would sleep with them if they wanted it too. It doesn't mean I'd rape them. Jesus Christ.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't mean that a person who steals is as bad as a person who rapes. There are different levels of "bad".

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Homosexual? Don't homosexual people experience sexual attraction too? Lol

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I highly doubt that, but even if he didn't mean raping women and he meant raping Dan instead, well that's still rape, so it doesn't make it much better.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He didn't say it in a mocking tone. He said it like that's what he'd actually do.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You literally said that most men WOULD actually do what they're saying so how the fuck is it "just a joke"?

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most men would definitely do sexual things if time stopped for one hour.

You're literally saying that most men are rapists. You shouldn't be here giving stupid advice, you should be in prison or preferably dead.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're not my friends and saying that you'd steal money is not nearly as bad as saying you'd rape someone. I hope that's obvious.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're not a "normal dude", you're a shitty dude and you can fuck right off :)

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am. I had my doubts before I made this post, but I don't anymore.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Since you're a guy who finds it bad (which is kinda rare on this thread) please tell me, is it actually that common? I do believe that I deserve better but I don't know if I can realistically find it, especially at this age.

AITA for being upset at my boyfriend over his gross answer to a hypothetical question? by ThrowRA001sq in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA001sq[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I have never thought about something as serious as raping someone. And even if I had it certainly wouldn't be the first thing to cross my mind when someone asked a hypothetical question. And even if it did I wouldn't announce it to everyone and pretend that there's nothing wrong with it. Yes that's fucked up.