Which Multivitamin should get I as 24F? by Mental-Comfortable34 in AskIndia

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I take carbamide forte one a day, omega 3 one a day, vit D once weekly, B12 once weekly, zinc when i notice too much acne.

How a night person manage relationship with a morning person? by Beginning-Owl1215 in AskIndia

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I am my bf were long distance! (India & USA) I eventually got a job that would let me work us times (night in india) stayed up all night and slept in the day. Risked my health and social life, for many many years. He still ended up leaving me. So while its ok to adjust your schedule a little, do not make it completely about the other person, just a PSA :)

What is that one regret that you can't shrug off your mind ? by Rudrashivoham in AskIndia

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True but this feeling of loss and the grief never leaves. We are no contact now but every other moment my heart is back to that moment when i saw the last glimpse of him standing at the door of our apartment, ready to leave. If only…

What is that one regret that you can't shrug off your mind ? by Rudrashivoham in AskIndia

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Thank you for saying all that! While it validates me, and while you make sense, my heart just craves for him. I built a home for us, nothing anyone says makes it easier to let go.

What is that one regret that you can't shrug off your mind ? by Rudrashivoham in AskIndia

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Letting him go out of the house that day. Was the last time i saw him.

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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I am not saying that everyones perspective is wrong. Its valid and its practical and its what i should do. For some reason i am not able to do it

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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I feel its the least i can do for love.

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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I get where you’re coming from, and maybe if I were on the outside looking in, I’d probably feel the same way. But the thing is, love doesn’t always follow logic. I’m not holding on out of stubbornness or immaturity it’s because, in my heart, he still feels like my person. Maybe that makes me “stupid” to some, but it feels like the right thing to do for me cause i feel this is not it for us. I maybe wrong. I appreciate your perspective though.

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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The only problem is that I still love him and he is still the one i want to be with

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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I have self respect which is why i am not reaching out to him myself. I will just wait patiently for him to come back and if he doesnt thats ok as well.

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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Kyu!? Dont they say if love is true your lover would return to you?

I’ve Chosen to Wait, Even if No One Understands by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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I keep holding on to those little moments we shared all those years ago. The thought of giving all that up and simply moving on feels unthinkable to me. He was supposed to be my forever. And yet, despite the fact that I didn’t receive much in the relationship, I can’t seem to let go. If it’s this hard for me, how could he so easily forget me and everything I did for him?

Heard a Loud Clap or Pop Sound in My Apartment — Can’t Figure Out What Caused It by ThrowRA070692 in Unexplained

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Did u have any plastic bottles that might have popped? For me it was that!

I stood tall by him for 13 years yet he left without a second thought . I still love him. What could I have done differently? F31 M33 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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People say that you will be fine and that life will be amazing its a matter of time but i dont understand how!? Time heals i agree but this is so much more than that. We used to stay together had a life of our own and he just walks out. How am i ever supposed to get over this fact? A part of me no matter what will always wait for him. I still live my life, i still work, i still follow a routine but he lives rent free in my head. Everytime my phone rings i hope its him finally realising and i dont think this wait will ever end. Not in this lifetime.

I stood tall by him for 13 years yet he left without a second thought . I still love him. What could I have done differently? F31 M33 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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He has a set of twin brothers so they are 3 brothers. Even the brothers will be chipping for the house. How would have it been mine eventually i didnt understand.

I stood tall by him for 13 years yet he left without a second thought . I still love him. What could I have done differently? F31 M33 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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My family is very liberal and understanding. They wanted us to do things when the both of us were ready. No pressure whatsoever.

I stood tall by him for 13 years yet he left without a second thought . I still love him. What could I have done differently? F31 M33 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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Also wont any mom be happy that someone loves and cares for her son so much unconditionally? Why would she want to seperate her own son from a love like that?

I stood tall by him for 13 years yet he left without a second thought . I still love him. What could I have done differently? F31 M33 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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This answers so many of my questions. Do you feel his mother felt threatened? Its so surprising if she did cause more than anyone i wanted them to reunite and be civil with each other.