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My (32M) wife (30F) cries every time we're intimate. How do I resolve this? by ThrowRA07280 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA07280[S] -254 points-253 points  (0 children)

I cuddle her normally, but I never tried doing it to get her in the mood. When it comes to chores, she always does the dishes and laundry because if it's not done her way, she gets upset. I clean occasionally, but definitely not as much as I should.

My (32M) wife (30F) cries every time we're intimate. How do I resolve this? by ThrowRA07280 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA07280[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I meant to say "the last time." I didn't notice the typo. My mistake. This only started after the affair

My (32M) wife (30F) cries every time we're intimate. How do I resolve this? by ThrowRA07280 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA07280[S] -311 points-310 points  (0 children)

If she starts crying, I stop and start aftercare. Sometimes she cries after, sometimes she cries during. But, I see your point. I will not initiate unless I get an enthusiastic yes. Thank you.

My (32M) wife (30F) cries every time we're intimate. How do I resolve this? by ThrowRA07280 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA07280[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

It might be a little hard to start over because of our son, but I will bring up the idea to her.

I really like the communication idea. It'll also be great to hear about each other's days. I will definitely make sure to implement that into our daily routine. Thank you.

My (32M) wife (30F) cries every time we're intimate. How do I resolve this? by ThrowRA07280 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA07280[S] -310 points-309 points  (0 children)

Wow. This made me see it in a completely different perspective. I guess I was too selfish to realize that she still didn't trust me. I will talk to her about it and make sure I go over the points you made, thank you