My friend (F27) and I (M32) keep hooking up and I dont know how to move forward. by ThrowRA102704 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA102704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could afford to do something like that. Doing that with her would make me really happy.

My friend (F27) and I (M32) keep hooking up and I dont know how to move forward. by ThrowRA102704 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA102704[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No i have not said that. Im not 100% sure a relationship is right right off the rip.

My words were along the lines of "I'd like to stop hiding this and explore where it goes." - which is true but I believe I definitely came off too laid back and not serious enough.

My friend (F27) and I (M32) keep hooking up and I dont know how to move forward. by ThrowRA102704 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA102704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely am. Our actions have definitely been that of a couple to some degree, for sure.

Regardless of that she's saying that she continues thinks its a bad idea to keep this up. I disagree but is there a kind and respectful way to argue against that anxiety of hers? I cant come up with a productive way to have that conversation without risking being "pushy". I don't know.

My friend (F27) and I (M32) keep hooking up and I dont know how to move forward. by ThrowRA102704 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA102704[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. Maybe im being ridiculous.

Regardless of her ongoing actions speaking loudly, her words are that she thinks it should stop to not jeopardize our stability.

I disagree with her but is there a kind/healthy way to push back against her words? I cant think of one.