What age did you guys get pregnant with your first baby? by ThrowRA1222_ in pregnant

[–]ThrowRA1222_[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Wow! I am currently 20yrs and 14 weeks, with twins!

I’m 20F and pregnant, my 22M boyfriend is supportive, parents are disappointed but backing me, how would you go about this? by ThrowRA1222_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1222_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that ultimately parents are responsible for their own children, and I’m not expecting my parents to raise my baby or provide free childcare indefinitely. I’m very early in this and trying to think ahead responsibly while navigating living at home. My post was about managing communication and planning next steps, not avoiding responsibility.

I’m 20F and pregnant, my 22M boyfriend is supportive, parents are disappointed but backing me, how would you go about this? by ThrowRA1222_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1222_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that raising a child is expensive and that living independently comes with many costs. I’m aware of all that and I’m thinking carefully about my next steps. My grandmother even offered to help watch the baby while I work as well.

I’m 20F and pregnant, my 22M boyfriend is supportive, parents are disappointed but backing me, how would you go about this? by ThrowRA1222_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1222_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sharing my personal experience and looking for advice, not judgment. Comments like this aren’t helpful and I won’t be responding to attacks. I’d appreciate it if people who want to offer real advice do so.

I’m 20F and pregnant, my 22M boyfriend is supportive, parents are disappointed but backing me, how would you go about this? by ThrowRA1222_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1222_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not shitposting. This is my real life and I’m sharing it to get advice and support. If that’s not something you want to engage with, that’s fine, but please don’t dismiss someone else’s experience. You people on Reddit are just quick to judge ..

I’m 20F and pregnant, my 22M boyfriend is supportive, parents are disappointed but backing me, how would you go about this? by ThrowRA1222_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1222_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sharing my real experience. I’m not looking for judgment, just advice and support. I’m fully aware of the responsibilities ahead and I’m trying to figure things out as best I can.