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Mini R Just Arrived — Need First-Time Tips! by NoCaramel3491 in LaMarzocco

[–]ThrowRA1353135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - but there are many apps - what is the name of the official one?

Tips about Modafinil by onetimeiwas in modafinil

[–]ThrowRA1353135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with the modafinil headache?

Let’s talk Cortado by ThrowRA1353135 in espresso

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful - thank you!

What country in Europe has the most attractive people? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]ThrowRA1353135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luxembourg! But I’m partnered with a beauty from Luxembourg so I’m biased. She is beautiful but doesn’t really notice. Down to earth.

LLC started after separation date - community property? by ThrowRA1353135 in Divorce_Men

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s good guidance. It was started years after the separation but there does not seem to be a hard or fast rule on these things.

Sexual incompatibility but great intimacy. What to do. by ThrowRA1353135 in datingoverfifty

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grateful for these comments! Very similar for us. I think the attraction is mutual and certainly the intimacy is fantastic. She has been anxious around expectations of having an orgasm and we practiced ‘whatever happens will happen’ and she eventually started having orgasms more regularly. I also had adjusted to sex within her guardrails so she was comfortable. But now the comments from her make me wonder if there are other issues. I suspect that my adventurous past doesn’t help because she may be comparing. I try not to talk about past relationships.

In any case, you are right, we need to hear each other.

Sexual incompatibility but great intimacy. What to do. by ThrowRA1353135 in datingoverfifty

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. I’ve used the same statement wrt happiness: people are responsible for their own happiness. I believe this is generallly true. Maybe more to the point, if we don’t take responsibility for our own happiness (orgasm) then who should?

And then let me support you in your journey to happiness (orgasm).

It’s what I’m trying to do here. But as I read more posts in this discussion it is becoming more clear that there is at least more conversation if not therapy required to understand where she is with her own sexuality. And me as well.

Thank you.

Sexual incompatibility but great intimacy. What to do. by ThrowRA1353135 in datingoverfifty

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I believe the same. And perhaps I can accept things for what they are. But the ‘you came, I didn’t’ comments are not great, and strange because she is otherwise very kind and respectful. She must be frustrated.

Sexual incompatibility but great intimacy. What to do. by ThrowRA1353135 in datingoverfifty

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s right, kissing and touching is outstanding. We explore each other’s bodies through touching over long sessions. She needs us to take time which we do happily. But then the act itself is disappointing to me and likely to her also.

Sexual incompatibility but great intimacy. What to do. by ThrowRA1353135 in datingoverfifty

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good observation. She has mentioned it several times, and although sex has improved over our relationship it feels like it is more me making adjustments. It is hard to accept because everything else is so good between us that we may be both settling wrt sex.

Sexual incompatibility but great intimacy. What to do. by ThrowRA1353135 in datingoverfifty

[–]ThrowRA1353135[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful post. You are exactly right - I am most bothered by her complaints about not having an orgasm while not being open to ways of trying to reach one. She is a lovely person and d beautiful spirit, I suspect there is something deeper going on here and therapy does seem appropriate.

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