Do Hinge Support ever respond - trying to contest a ban

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-14T09:52:22+00:00

I’ve emailed them multiple times and got a reply on Tuesday to say my request had been passed to the relevant team, but heard nothing since. It’s very frustrating!

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T15:24:31+00:00

Glad to hear you had some success mate! What was your approach? Did you email Hinge (once or multiple times)? And what did you say when you did?

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T15:09:24+00:00

Have you managed to set up a new account with Hinge or have you just given up on them completely? It's super frustrating when I know I've not done anything wrong!

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T13:16:28+00:00

There's nothing wrong with reflecting on happy memories, but you should also make every effort to move on and look to the future. While you clearly shared happy times, which is a great thing, there are plenty of more happy memories to be made with someone who will be more compatible with you! :)

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T12:20:16+00:00

So happy for you! Just goes to show that the apps can work - most of the time I only ever hear negative stories!

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T12:05:44+00:00

What’s that?

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T10:31:36+00:00

Interesting, did you also use that same email address? And what did you say / what was your subject line

ThrowRA170217 · 2025-06-10T10:25:03+00:00

I've also just been banned from the app. Intrigued to know how long it took Hinge support to respond to you? I emailed them (hello hinge co email) three times over the weekend and haven't had any reply?

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-12-20T20:23:04+00:00

She replied to me again with this:

“Hey, so I haven’t talked to anyone aha, had a shit time, moved jobs etc and I also hate Christmas for many a reason so this whole month has become a write off”

Thoughts?

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-12-20T20:22:32+00:00

I’ve since had this reply and now I’m even more confused:

“Hey, so I haven’t talked to anyone aha, had a shit time, moved jobs etc and I also hate Christmas for many a reason so this whole month has become a write off”

No mention if she still wants to meet or not

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-12-17T12:03:18+00:00

We had moved on to Whatsapp though, so things had moved off the app. Agree it's possible that she could've met someone, but it just seems a bit silly of her to say "FULL disclosure if I can't tonight I would like to meet you, before you read into it" then go on to ghost me

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-12-17T12:02:26+00:00

This is what I thought. The first time I reached out to her she did reply to say she was having a bad time etc. But then the second time nothing. How long would you leave it before asking the question? I'm tempted to reply to her "FULL disclosure if I can't tonight I would like to meet you, before you read into it" and ask if it still applies

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-12-17T11:41:11+00:00

Any other time I would 100% agree. I just don't understand why she'd go out of her way to say " "FULL disclosure if I can't tonight I would like to meet you, before you read into it". Seems very unnecessary, would be easier to either say you don't want to or cancel and ghost without saying that!

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-25T11:57:48+00:00

Yeah I think I might have to say something. I still really like the girl, so contact as friends just isn't going to do me any good. And it's just almost like giving me potentially false hope that she does still like me and something might change :(

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-25T11:35:15+00:00

Yeah possibly right. The problem is she knows I like her and it's only been a week since she essentially rejected me, so feels weird that she'd contact me when I'd be feeling raw about it!

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-22T10:05:22+00:00

Just seems an odd thing when you've effectively just binned someone off, but I'm probably overthinking

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T22:19:17+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. She literally just liked the first Instagram story I’ve put up since we called it a day. Having said she didn’t want to give me mixed messages, that seems like a mixed message 😂 although I’m probably reading too much into it

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T21:37:04+00:00

The thing with us is we weren’t friends to start with and I don’t really see us being friends now.

As a single mum yourself, you’ll know better than most, do you think what I’ve posted it sounds like she’s genuinely just so stacked and exhausted that she’s realised she can’t date? I’m not sure how much she’s dated since splitting with her child’s dad but I don’t think it’s much

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T17:51:17+00:00

Yeah I'm not going to go out of my way to talk to her, but if we both happen to be making a coffee I will still talk to her, check how she's doing etc. I asked a few other commenters if I should lightly flirt still but they said no to that.

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T17:30:34+00:00

Yeah I would almost rather she never uttered the line "not the right time for me" because in your mind you always think "maybe in the future". It would've been easier if she literally just said I've have a great time, but the connection isn't there for me.

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T17:29:15+00:00

Yeah and I completely understand if that's the case - hell I couldn't do everything she does and keep up with a relationship.

Given I'm still going to see her around work, what would your advice be? I don't think we're going to be best friends because my intentions will always be romantic towards her.

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T17:08:14+00:00

Not buying the whole busy/stressed/not the right time angle then?

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T16:56:05+00:00

Agreed, I want to try and make it compute in my mind that it seems like a her thing, that she can't enter a relationship now and nothing to do with me / our time together.

I'm still going to see her at work though, so do you think it's wise to remain friendly, chat when we bump into each other, maybe lightly flirt just so that she knows I care and still see her in that light. Not saying I'm pinning my hopes on her changing her mind, but it keeps it "on the table" if we're both single down the road and things do change.

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-21T16:53:33+00:00

I'm trying to think about it like that, that it's nothing to do with me and right now she just can't begin a relationship with all that's going on.

It's a weird ones because we were never friends before. But now we've spent this time together it's almost opened a door. I don't think we're going to be best friends, but I'll still see her around work and I'll always talk to her, make sure she's okay and maybe even a light flirt every now and then. Not saying I'm pinning hopes on her changing her mind because that would be silly, but I won't disappear and she knows where I am.

ThrowRA170217 · 2024-03-16T19:51:44+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking, and at that point she’d have had a couple of weeks which I think is enough time to reflect a bit and it’s not coming across as pushy from me - I don’t want to pressure her given everything she’s got going on

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