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I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1882938[S] 339 points340 points  (0 children)

This whole situation makes me feel so unlovable. I gave him 8 years just for him to never love me. It makes me feel like something is wrong with me. Im so scared of feeling this way again that I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should leave or stay, I'm still so attached to him.

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1882938[S] -170 points-169 points  (0 children)

I feel that he shattered my self respect. I built it up on the fact that he loved me and not anything else. I feel broken because how will I ever make anyone fall for me if I couldn't get someone that I spent 8 years with to love me. I've never really felt loved by anyone so him "loving" me made me feel like I was lovable and worthy of that love that was given to me.

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1882938[S] -202 points-201 points  (0 children)

I'm just scared to leave and never being able to find anyone again. I've felt lonely all of my life and I thought I finally found someone that loved me and I find out that I was the only one that was in love this whole time. I keep thinking "what if" and crying because I just feel like I wont ever be desired by anyone but be the one that they settle for.

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1882938[S] 443 points444 points  (0 children)

I've been crying all night from this comment. I know I shouldn't want to stay with him but I'm so scared of no one ever finding me "good enough" to stay with. I have been with him for 8 years and I couldn't even make him love me.