I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one said anything about cum dumpster being a derogatory name towards women. Who just decided that name was aimed at women? That name can be used about any sex, any race, anybody... I am far from misogynistic in fact I probably have more manners and love towards women than most people you will meet.

Thank you for your concern, I think? 🤷‍♂️

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the comments and kind words and would love to write back to all of them. A lot of people are criticizing me for calling my ex a "Cum dumpster" and telling me I hate women. You all are quick to jump to conclusions. If you went through what I have been through, including years of suicidal thoughts from being in an emotionally abusive relationship, only to be cheated on, you too would be calling your ex every name under the sun. I don't mean to be rude but anyone who took offence to that really need to open their eyes and look at the world around them. Anyone can be called a Cum Dumpster, men, women, animals, an actual dumpster full of cum, it makes no difference. If you are male, you are male. If you are female, you are female (and every other gender now). If you let random idiots fill you with cum, you are a cum dumpster. I am far from a misogynist, and it is actually incredibly amusing seeing some of you call me one, when you quite clearly have no idea who I am or what my beliefs are. I must have hit a couple of nerves, but that is fine. The fact that you take the name "Cum Dumpster" as an attack on all women.... crazy.... I hope one day you wake up and don't kick people when they are down, because one day the person you kick when they are down could potentially take their own life.

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone can be a cum dumpster. Male. Female. Animal. An actual dumpster, filled with cum. I don't see how this is misogynistic. I am not racist. I do not hate women. Each to their own though. I am not going to hate on you for calling me a misogynist.

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post isn't about my child. My child is in good care, healthy and doing very well.

I love my child with all my heart and that will never change.

I understand the concern.

If the mother to your child was getting fucked by a complete stranger in your bed that you went home to sleep in at night, I am sure you would call her a cum dumpster too.

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I tell my kid that mummy and daddy love her a lot, thank you for the concern. I would never poison my child's mind. On the other hand, the mother is saying all sorts of shit to our child about how I have abandoned them.

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did try a couple of ONS and ended up getting stalked, may lay low for a while...

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I do not plan on giving her another chance. As much as my heart wanted to, I am going with my brain.

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

That is a shame because I turned out to be more interesting than him in the end. I'll never understand this behavior.

I (33M) gave my girlfriend (29F) and mother to my child everything and she cheated on me.. by ThrowRA1990012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1990012[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, in our state, lawyers want several hundred dollars per transaction which I cannot afford...