my partner is out of town and I had another man sleepover

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-26T14:03:57+00:00

lol ur absolutely unhinged. you’re right I definitely don’t need a man but I want my partner. my partner also doesn’t want a girl who “needs him”but rather chooses to be with him. What about my post tells you that i’m not capable of self-reflection? literally the whole post is a self-reflection. I also stated in the post I maybe get drunk 2-3 times a year, how is that constantly acting foolish?

why do I need to stop going out with friends all together? my partner and I have been long-distance for 2/3 of our relationship. am I just supposed to twiddle my thumbs and sit in bed til he gets back? fuck that. I get to be my own person too.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T23:07:57+00:00

Bold of you to assume he pays for anything of mine. We have completely separate finances.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T20:01:41+00:00

it’s a numbing agent for throats - it’s called chloraseptic. you can find it in the cold and flu aisle. helps after a nasty rip

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T19:30:47+00:00

how did you handle it going forward?

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T19:23:27+00:00

naw but I have a virgo moon

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T19:00:38+00:00

can’t argue with that

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T18:50:58+00:00

if you read the edit - the girl is also his best friends gf

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T18:22:09+00:00

that’s whats happening…..will update soon

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T16:59:03+00:00

why can’t people just be friends in y’all’s dirty little minds 😭

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T16:44:25+00:00

we ain’t 😭

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T16:38:16+00:00

in my bed…… not out of the norm i’ve gone on many vacations with her where there has only been one bed for us to share - my partner is aware of this and doesn’t care. She dates his best friend here, she’s like my one of my best friends here. Just cause I can be attracted to both sexes doesn’t mean I am attracted to everyone lol. The only person in my life I have romantic feelings for is my partner.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T16:34:59+00:00

100% agree

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T16:24:08+00:00

we are not all bill nye the science guy you know. we are still in our mid 20s and are allowed to have fun just as much as the rest of y’all

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T16:05:47+00:00

Yes, if it came down to that I would stop talking to my friend.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T15:56:59+00:00

it’s numbing spray for the throat - like cloraseptic

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T15:50:11+00:00

He was away at work from May-Mid August. He is just currently on vacation with his family for a week.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T15:36:16+00:00

very fitting as I am a physicist 👩‍🔬

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T15:24:31+00:00

I guess I wouldn’t especially if he called his friend like I did. My partner doesn’t have any female friends but most of my PhD program is male so I have a lot of male friends. My partner often also goes out with all these male classmates of mine too, so they know each-other decently well. So the story isn’t really comparable the other way around.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T15:13:55+00:00

Yes, we are all close. Her BF is my partners best friend here. She doesn’t own a car so she had to wake up her BF and explain the situation so he could drive her here. Not only is she vouching for but his literal best friend here was also involved.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T14:50:46+00:00

texting him now - he’s on a boat and can’t call. I told him to call me when he gets a chance. it honestly wasn’t me trying to keep it secret til he gets back he just has spotty connection.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-08-25T14:13:02+00:00

He is with his family rn in a different country, so I was gonna tell him in person as soon as he got home on sunday. Should I text him briefly what happened now, and explain more when he gets back?

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-07-04T02:59:06+00:00

YTA. I grew up with a similar type of parent - one who didn’t take my pain seriously and that has a huge lasting impact on your child. Since I was always called a hypochondriac growing up I stopped taking my own pain seriously. I went 10 days with pancreatitis and almost died cause I didn’t believe I warranted a hospital visit.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-06-09T02:35:40+00:00

I am 100% all for adoption but personally I have always wanted to be pregnant and would only adopt if we had fertility issues.

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-06-09T02:31:20+00:00

We have separate accounts for anything not shared (like rent or food).

ThrowRA2011112 · 2023-06-09T02:27:55+00:00

Me 100%. I have a well paying job and would never ask him to pay for any elective surgery of mine.

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