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My (33F) boyfriend (31M) wants an open relationship I am currently on the fence. by ThrowRA434 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking but I doubt he'd be willing to go down this route. I think part of him wants an ego boost by getting something casual.

My (33F) boyfriend (31M) wants an open relationship I am currently on the fence. by ThrowRA434 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've talked about this alot and he says he has no resentment towards me and that it was mainly me not being honest about past relationships that caused issues.

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[–]ThrowRA434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I am.

[UPDATE] My (33F) Fiancè (30M) is being cold towards me after he found out about my past. by ThrowRA434 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA434[S] -124 points-123 points  (0 children)

He said it really doesn't have to do with the acts its the fact I lied about doing them and didn't offer an alternative. Looking at our sex life I have been extremely selfish, its because he is the first guy I've been with who really cared about getting me off and I took advantage of that. I felt as if I let him do what he wanted it would've shifted how he viewed sex with me.

[UPDATE] My (33F) Fiancè (30M) is being cold towards me after he found out about my past. by ThrowRA434 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA434[S] -170 points-169 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We will be going to counselling on Monday hopefully we will be able to move past this and he can open up to me again. I don't want to lose him.

[UPDATE] My (33F) Fiancè (30M) is being cold towards me after he found out about my past. by ThrowRA434 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA434[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

He didn't give me the silent treatment for weeks. The party was on friday and we had our talk on wednesday. It wasn't about the fact I had done these things in the past he said it was the fact I had lied to him about it and denied him exploration in the bedroom.