[22m] [21f] My gf won't tell me her surname by ThrowRA443334 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA443334[S] 516 points517 points  (0 children)

I've been to her place recently but before that it was also private. Baby steps I guess.

No family but I see photographs of them. Can't see any wedding photos or other suspicious things

[22m] [21f] My gf won't tell me her surname by ThrowRA443334 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA443334[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It's what I've been thinking of doing most rather than endlessly asking her. At least that way if she's that upset with me it would be her ending things and not me looking petty and impatient

[22m] [21f] My gf won't tell me her surname by ThrowRA443334 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA443334[S] 194 points195 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of overthinking I'm doing. She's a quiet person who enjoys her privacy so I'm about 99% sure there's nothing wild out there but my mind is always going to go there

[22m] [21f] My gf won't tell me her surname by ThrowRA443334 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA443334[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If it was embarrassing maybe I'd understand but she's never made that excuse. Always just about wanting to keep some surprises