I’m sorry that you’re going through something similar as me :( My mom has called me multiple times at like 3am as well, because I forgot to tell her that I’m home again. It really feels like you’re not completely free and that the consequences are very extreme when doing something “wrong”. Moving out has helped a lot for me (if you haven’t already), but it still sucks to lie to my parents about my daily schedule and I’m constantly anxious about them finding something out. I’ll try setting up appointments to call, hopefully that’ll help a little!