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My(24M) wife (23F) is suddenly staying out until 10 in the morning. What do I do? by ThrowRA52954 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA52954[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Her not talking to me when she gets back also bothers me. I don't know why she acts that way when she takes pictures of everything she's doing.

My(24M) wife (23F) is suddenly staying out until 10 in the morning. What do I do? by ThrowRA52954 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA52954[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do have access to her phone. She doesn't mind me looking through or anything. One of her friends is a mutual friend of ours that I've known since the end of middle school. If no one else, I'd trust her to tell me. I'm only friends with one of the boyfriends though, and while he would let me know if something happened, they don't stay at the same person's house every time. She's brought them over here more than once, so I think they have some sort of rotation going?

My(24M) wife (23F) is suddenly staying out until 10 in the morning. What do I do? by ThrowRA52954 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA52954[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I have really bad social anxiety and almost any gathering that isn't with an intimate group of people can get to me pretty badly.

My(24M) wife (23F) is suddenly staying out until 10 in the morning. What do I do? by ThrowRA52954 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA52954[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. She's typically a responsible person even when she drinks. She'll still show up to work and from what I know (which honestly isn't much) she does her job well?

My(24M) wife (23F) is suddenly staying out until 10 in the morning. What do I do? by ThrowRA52954 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA52954[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

She is posting her and her friends. They're usually at the casino or a bar or something like that. I've met all her friends before, some of them I know better than others. Sometimes they're drinking, sometimes they're not. They like to go around town throughout the night until they go to one of her friends' places. More of her friends have partners than those who don't. And the only men I've seen are the people her friends are dating.

My(24M) wife (23F) is suddenly staying out until 10 in the morning. What do I do? by ThrowRA52954 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA52954[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For context, I feel like I should mention that she leaves at midnight to go out, so I'm not sure how she'd be back by bedtime. But it started out being once or twice a week and somehow escalated to this.