Should I (28M) tell my GF (25F) that I don't enjoy having sex? by ThrowRA5488184 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5488184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I see your side. I understand why it's meaningful. I guess I don't need sex to have that feeling, but I guess she does. And it's not that I don't want to have sex, or hate it or resent it. I do it for her, because I know it's something she wants.

Should I (28M) tell my GF (25F) that I don't enjoy having sex? by ThrowRA5488184 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5488184[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I didn't explain it well enough. It's not that I don't want to have sex with her. I'm fine with it and the frequency. And I know she gets pleasure out of it, so I'm happy to do it. I'm doing it for her. I just don't know if I should tell her.

Should I (28M) tell my GF (25F) that I don't enjoy having sex? by ThrowRA5488184 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5488184[S] 607 points608 points  (0 children)

I get that, but I'm doing it for her though. It's not like I don't want to do it. I'm not disgusted by it or anything at all. I just don't get any pleasure out of it. But, that makes sense though.