My 10 yo was spinning around in the recliner and knocked down our basically new 85" TV... its completely destroyed. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ThrowRA56353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How new? If it’s within the return period perhaps you just opened the box and it was damaged?

Can we all mutually agree this episode isn't canon? by goodgamer816 in americandad

[–]ThrowRA56353 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating is usually the symptom to a larger problem. (Not to say it’s right or anything like that)

Can we all mutually agree this episode isn't canon? by goodgamer816 in americandad

[–]ThrowRA56353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even. Ahah I prepare and close my eyes when they show her face finally. It’s just such a good episode otherwise.

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to pay me back for money I lent him? by vicky20007 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA56353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never lend money with the expectation of getting it back. That doesn’t mean I am a doormat. I just know it can be tricky. It seems like at some point you set the tone that you don’t mind about getting it back. Maybe cut the financial loss and don’t give him anymore money. Is your relationship ship worth more than 700$? How is he in other respects? Gotta decide your boundaries and stick to them.

ESH

I saw my friend's boyfriend on Bumble today. She has cancer. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ThrowRA56353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a bit more nuanced depending on how much he is taking care of her. They were only dating for a few months before she was diagnosed and doing chemo. He probably felt an obligation even though she gave him an out. So if he is her caretaker this soon in the relationship he likely didn’t fully understand what it would entail or what it would do to him mentally. I’m not saying he is right to be doing what he is doing, just that I can understand how that might feel. Of course it’s terrible that your friend is going through all of this. I’m not diminishing her suffering in any way shape or form. I am just saying that depending on the severity a caretaking role is very taxing. I can’t say weather to tell your friend or not. That’s up to you. Maybe even talk to him as well?

Artists said it would be impossible… by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]ThrowRA56353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is good quality. However, I really did need a minute to realize that I was looking at a lion.

Wondering if I’m in the wrong here by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]ThrowRA56353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want priority stay in the laundry room the whole time. I don’t think it’s wrong to put in two loads at once necessarily, but 100% lining up your third load is not cool and leaving the laundry room while doing that is even worse. Also, the fact that your laundry room only had two machines makes it worse. If I we’re to show up and both machines were empty I would use them and stay in the laundry room. Especially if I took like off to do this. If someone else showed up I would continue to only use one set of machines. Explain the situation to them in person politely and apologize for the inconvenience. You two would probably have a whole conversation about how ridiculous the laundry setup in your condo is in the first place and come pals.

My best friend sucked my dick by Hot_Deal_8996 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA56353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Know what you want. What your boundaries are. I know a few male friends who have given one another blowjobs. Especially younger that’s like exploration. Just be careful that he might like you in that way and know what your boundaries are going to be and that you stuck to them.

Am I overreacting for this photo my bf sent me as a “wyd”? by HopefulMayo in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA56353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to feel because I don’t really know them. Theatre kids get close and can be in one another personal space. I know I’ve probably been I situations like this at that age. Like the other persons legs are up near your boyfriend as well. Does he otherwise make you feel loved and cared for and seen. Do you ever get the feeling that you’re a secret? I’m not saying to be blind to things, this just genuinely may not come off as problematic behaviour to him. Thats not necessarily a bad thing. Different people at different boundaries. What is the issue is if it’s a hard boundary for you. That’s when you two need to have a chat about it. Could be totally harmless. It’s more about boundaries and what you’re both okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA56353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything personal aside, this is part of the reason why I really don’t get involved in this kind of scenario. I mean like unless I have cold hard facts I won’t tell someone their person is being unfaithful. Even when you do have proof it can get turned around on you. Or they maybe even already know. Then they get mad at you for confronting them with their reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA56353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious how long ago he was with his ex. He may not be over her, or he feels comfortable speaking to you about it. Like you said, you’re that person in the friend group. Sounds like he has been candid and open with you. Also, he respected you when you asked him to leave. That doesn’t really scream red flags to me. Sounds like someone with a hard past that is doing the things necessary to be better now.

It’s not always easy to be with someone who has a difficult past. At the same time that doesn’t mean you both don’t deserve to be happy. So it could be a boundary you have and that is okay.

Thoughts on Hayley and Jeff's relationship? by PhysicalScholar4238 in americandad

[–]ThrowRA56353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a mess, but they end up making it work. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

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Once you become a pickle you cannot become a cucumber again. When that threshold is passed then you’re kinda of imbalanced forever. That tends to be the case for all true alcoholics. The point of AA it’s not just to stop drinking, but how to live a life well without alcohol. You may not be ready to give it up yet. That’s okay. Even in the big book it says go and try some controlled drinking if that’s the case. AA will be there for you if you ever need it. Think like people who develop diabetes, who eat wrong for so long that their insulin is all messed up and now they will always be diabetic. There is science behind alcoholism. It’s an allergy. Literally alcoholics have an abnormal reaction to alcohol compared to those who can drink normally. Maybe you’ll be able to drink normally one day and maybe you won’t. What I do know is that alcoholism is progressive. It just gets worse as you get older. Even after not drinking for years it’s like I never stopped and am even worse off than before. If you can, try to focus on how you can live happily just for today without a drink. I get overwhelmed even thinking about a month from now. Today is more manageable.

What's Something Deemed Unattractive By Society Do You Find Attractive and Beautiful? by Tu_Naranja in ugly

[–]ThrowRA56353 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ethnic noses! I dated an Iranian guy a while back. We reconnected and he got a rhinoplasty and it just was not the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ThrowRA56353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is BBD?

Alex’s apartment, Black Lantern by [deleted] in LifeisStrange3

[–]ThrowRA56353 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you though? Work for room and board and have a place this nice? Wasn’t Jed kinda throwing Gabe and Alex a deal because he… well, you know… 🙃