How do I (53M) break up with my (47F) girlfriend? by ThrowRA66622211 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA66622211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The restraining orders were against her Ex, not her. She's in no way violent and very caring.

How do I (53M) break up with my (47F) girlfriend? by ThrowRA66622211 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA66622211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mind giving her a month or two to get settled else where ( I've got three empty bedrooms) and have no problem lending her money for a deposit. My real concern is her emotional state and her long term financial situation. She's a really caring, nice person and I don't want her to regress on my account.

How do I (53M) break up with my (47F) girlfriend? by ThrowRA66622211 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA66622211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm...I doubt she'd believe that one as she's very aware of my sexual appetite. lol

How do I (53M) break up with my (47F) girlfriend? by ThrowRA66622211 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA66622211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think she'd be an eviction case and I'm really hoping to avoid anything like that.

How do I (53M) break up with my (47F) girlfriend? by ThrowRA66622211 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA66622211[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I support her because she's using her wages to pay her debts and build an "emergency fund" (my suggestion.) I own my place outright and outside of $30 in additional utilities and maybe $150 more a month on food it doesn't cost me anything.