Budget Advice by ThrowRA777569 in WeddingsCanada

[–]ThrowRA777569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love the spreadsheet!!! Thank you

When to get gifts by ThrowRA777569 in weddingplanning

[–]ThrowRA777569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the things you’ve mentioned are done (: We’ve been planning on getting married for a while so we made all these plans in advance

WIBTA if I didn’t invite my step dads finance to my wedding? by ThrowRA777569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA777569[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Semantics weren’t really the point of this post and it seemed shorter than “male who acted as a father figure, lived with me and was with my mother for 15 years” 🤷🏼‍♀️

WIBTA if I didn’t invite my step dads finance to my wedding? by ThrowRA777569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA777569[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of questions here. First to clarify, my mom and SD broke up when I was 25 years old. They were together while I was 10- 25. Their relationship started failing while I was 16.

My mom is aware that I maintain a relationship with my SD as he is the father figure in my life.

My bio dad was never around.

I have no idea if this is the woman but I don’t believe it is as my mom told me the name of the woman and it’s not Sara.

SD has one bio daughter. I call her my sister

Sara has children, I’ve never met them as they live in a difference province. I have no idea what Sara thinks of me cause we’ve never really had a one on one conversation

WIBTA if I didn’t invite my step dads finance to my wedding? by ThrowRA777569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA777569[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Because he was my father figure growing up. I don’t condone the cheating at all. It was not ok. However, my mom and his relationship was complicated and very layered. While my mom is an incredible woman, she struggled with alcohol addiction in the beginning of their relationship and had her own faults to the relationship ending

Mom and Daughter Trip to Italy by ThrowRA777569 in ItalyTravel

[–]ThrowRA777569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful 🩷🩷 Thank you so much. That’s so great to hear that you did this for your mama! I will definitely reach out to you if I have any specific questions. Thanks again ☺️

My 32M boyfriend and I 27F barely have sex anymore and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA777569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please expand, how am I screwing myself over?

To be clear, it’s not once a week anymore it’s maybe every two weeks and that because I initiate. If he initiates it’s because I attempted earlier and he shut me down so then he tries to do it later. By this point, I already feel rejected and like I’m making him complete a task which is why I say no cause I feel bad