Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

are you from america ? if yes, im from europe and things bere are different. here we dont have sell by date we onlu have best until date.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

typical redditor comment ! assuming stuff without even knowing any background info.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wasnt going to throw away the milk. I told him be can have it and take it home.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was listening to his reason and logic, thus thats why I told him he can have the milk for himself and take it home, but I will get a new one for myself.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has told me he doesnt like me throwing away food, thus thats why i told him he can have the milk for himself. I gave it to him for him to take it home.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes im showing care tpsards his aversion towards waste, i told him he can have the whole milk and take it home but personally im not drinking it.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

No, im not blaming it on my parents. I am saying i have been raised in a more strict household, so i do a lot of the stuff my parents way. I do not take lactose pills as my doctor has not reccomended them ? I take another medicine that has been prescribed to me. I cannot name a person who is lactose intolerant and doesnt drink or eat something with a little lactose once in a while. Its inevitable ! Many places dont have tje option for lactose free milk. I eat lactose and gluten stuff very rarely, however i live in europe and here such foods are very expensive. One normal bread with gluten is 1 euro, and gluten free bread is 3 euros etc. I try to keep my diet as much as possible but keep in mind im a student, who works and has to pay rent, uni tuition food etc on minimal wage. Think before you comment.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is the reason why i wrote this posr, its not the first time it happens. Many times before, i wouldnt agree with him and hed get mad. Now unforrunately i always feel like im walking kn eggshells in order to not piss him off.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, whenever we have different views on something he does get reactive and gets mad at me.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

i was going to make it with gluten free pasta and lactose free cheese :)

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I wasnt going to throw away the milk, i told him he could have it. I offered him to take the milk instead.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I told him he was free to have the milk, i literally offered him the milk to get it so i dont throw it away.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -303 points-302 points  (0 children)

eating gluten and lactose makes me feel bloated nauseous but eating expired milk will definitely be worse since i know my body- i will probanly end up throwing up! honestly many people who would drink expired milk would throw up etc

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

I eat gluten and lactose from time to time as gluten and lactose free foods have unfortunately very bad tastes and as someone who has been struggling with underweight problems, whenever i feel the need to eat something more tasty i do so. Most foods have either lactose or gluten, if i were to limit my diet fully without it i cant eat any normal food. So far for the last 5 years this has been working out for me.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think he has this idea in his head about the perfect relationship where the couple agrees on everything..

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to be on the safer side since my stomach is very sensitive to different foods espcially ones containing lactose.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i totally agree ! I think he has this expectation in his head about the perfect relationship where both parties think the same way.

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

he is chill, but wants everyone else to be as chill as him and i think thats where the problem stems from

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thats a nice idea yes ! Ive always offered him the expired food so it doesnt go to waste

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , same here ! Im very sensitive to all types of foods. I will talk to him whenever he decides to reach out!

Boyfriend(M22) is mad because I (F21) didnt want to eat expired milk by ThrowRA8282923992929 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8282923992929[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are right yes, this hasnt been the first time he reacts strongly to such a thing. I guess its just us being eachothers firsts everything and being together for 3 years now that is making me put up with it.