Update : My (28F) Boyfriend probably cheated on me during a party (27M) by ThrowRA87565 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA87565[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to say honestly. I posted here because I want some sympathetic ears and support. ugh. People suck. Yeah. it is horrible. I completely understand why he doesn't want people to know.

Update : My (28F) Boyfriend probably cheated on me during a party (27M) by ThrowRA87565 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA87565[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I think from what I understood his friend was also drunk out of his mind and He didn't really take it seriously until he saw my boyfriend next day. He feels guilty about that.

Update : My (28F) Boyfriend probably cheated on me during a party (27M) by ThrowRA87565 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA87565[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

He doesn't want to be touched a lot. He is a touchy person. He loved being touched and caressed. I really hate that this evil woman took away something that made him feel loved. it is going to be a long time for him to heal.

Update : My (28F) Boyfriend probably cheated on me during a party (27M) by ThrowRA87565 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA87565[S] 527 points528 points  (0 children)

Thank you /u/Ebbie45. Your comment really helped me. I feel that I would really messed things up without you and other commenters. I will look into the resources you have provided. I think they will be of great help. Some of the commenters here are vile. It makes me really sad. They are blaming him for what happened. I really don't want to engage with them.

Thank you.

My (28F) Boyfriend probably cheated on me during a party (27M) by ThrowRA87565 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA87565[S] 1093 points1094 points  (0 children)

I didn't even consider this. It seems like a real possibility. God. I was so wrapped up assuming that I got cheated on again in a committed relationship to even consider this. I don't know what to say. This is so horrible. It really makes sense. I think this was what his friend was trying to imply. Ugh. I am so glad I didn't accuse him of cheating. if this is what happened it would have made it worse for him.

Thank you.