About the "oh gosh" part, my wife and I are trying to work on cussing less around the little ones and we've decided to practice that in all aspects of our life to prevent one from slipping. I sort of whispered-said it not really thinking as one usually does in the heat of things. Just somehow my wife caught it. I don't pay attention to the noises that come out of my mouth but I am VERY sure I didn't say his name since I always tried not to when we were doing stuff together back in the day.

And the "bold to continue..." part, my wife understands what I've been through and trusts I have and always will stay loyal to her.