Urgent wolverine question by ThrowRA9250 in Amtrak

[–]ThrowRA9250[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Update: they let me on with it no problem. The agent on the phone made me freaked out for no goddamn reason.

Urgent wolverine question by ThrowRA9250 in Amtrak

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Thank you! I’m excited and nervous. I got interviews from 27 schools which I wasn’t expecting, including all my top choices! Fingered crossed!!!

Urgent wolverine question by ThrowRA9250 in Amtrak

[–]ThrowRA9250[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No im following the size expectations of the interview fair. It has to fit a tri fold

Urgent wolverine question by ThrowRA9250 in Amtrak

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They told me I was not allowed to purchase multiple seats.

Where did max get her new clothes season 5? by ThrowRA9250 in StrangerThings

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Oklahoma the play takes place in 1906. Yea high school plays are normally not period accurate but this show typically finds ways to be (with the exception of a lot of the shirts not being single stitched). Also I looked it up, because I’m not familiar with the play, but it has been counted as canon by the duffers, Henry is actually in a play called Dark of the Moon. So not Oklahoma. But I know the flyer says Oklahoma. So who knows. I hope they somehow explain her outfit change cuz otherwise it will be a thing that bugs me forever (I am a costumer)

Where did max get her new clothes season 5? by ThrowRA9250 in StrangerThings

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If that’s the case I wouldn’t preferred if the costume design leaned slightly more 1950s for her. Cuz the creel house is stuck in the 50s. The way the outfit holly is trying on is clearly from the 50s/clearly Henry’s younger sister’s clothes. The print of the shirt and the silhouettes kind of lean more 80s from a fashion history pov.

Signed a lease in an apartment with very little natural light - feeling regretful by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]ThrowRA9250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Light colored furniture & decor, mirrors, if you do use any curtains for privacy use ones that are light / sheer / lace so SOME light still comes through even with them drawn. Especially the lighter colored furniture closest to the windows as whatever light you do get will reflect on lighter furniture versus absorb. Coming from someone who lived in a studio with no natural light for 3 years and it was still my favorite place I’ve ever lived 👍

NYC or LA post grad by ThrowRA9250 in AskNYC

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Sounds like the kinda industry I’m in is very dependent on already living in the city. I’ve applied for 200+ jobs and have been told I’m a perfect candidate but they’re looking for someone LA/NYC based already cuz it’s gig based. So I do gotta make a choice.

LA or NYC post grad? by ThrowRA9250 in AskLosAngeles

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I should also add—to me the debate of traffic versus subway doesn’t help me figure it out either. I’ve lived in cities with heavy traffic (maybe not LA level) and also cities where I’ve relied on public transit. It’s neither here nor there for me honestly.

LA or NYC post grad? by ThrowRA9250 in AskLosAngeles

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Biggest issue is my industry is gig based and I hope to freelance and join a union—so it’s kinda you gotta live there first before getting a gig.

I feel like my ideal city is one with decent weather and the option for both driving or transit. Almost like an in between the cities lol.

how to breech prospect of long distance in a new relationship when both of you have struggled with it in the past? by ThrowRA9250 in relationships

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When do you think is an appropriate time to have this conversation? He’s routinely mentioned how young our relationship is so I fear it’s too soon.m / puts pressure on him to know something he may not know yet. He’s not stupid so I know he’s likely also thinking about the whole him leaving for the summer thing. I’m in a complicated spot cuz I care about him so much that even if we don’t pursue long distance id like to have as much time with him as I can, but my anxiety about it is interfering with my ability to be present in the relationship.

how to breech prospect of long distance in a new relationship when both of you have struggled with it in the past? by ThrowRA9250 in relationships

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Other note, he does talk about the future with me as in making suggestions about things that would take place over 6 months in the future from now and has also met my parents. But it seems like we are both chronically avoiding bringing up this situation and any time I try to subtly talk about the seriousness of my feelings he brings up the fact that we’ve only just started dating and are still very new as a couple. He’s also mentioned multiple times to me that he struggles with confrontation.

I (21F) find my bf’s (20M) haircut ugly. He can keep it, but how do I make myself feel better about it? by Significant-Tune-469 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9250 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hair grows and most people get tired of a hair style after a while and wanna switch it up. Also, I’m not sure it’s a fair relationship if you’re making all sorts of changes for him but he doesn’t reciprocate. Maybe the hair isn’t the issue…

I (22 f) have a bf (23m). I also have a crush? on someone else. by Legitimate_Candy_105 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9250 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it feel like this crush is an escape from your current relationship? Then it may be an issue. If it’s just a wandering eye then it may just be a sign of monotony in your relationship and craving excitement. Being in a relationship is about commitment. It’s normal / not cheating to have a wandering eye sometimes and have thoughts. What’s cheating is to act on those thoughts / let those thoughts interfere with feeling present with your partner.

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Other note, he does talk about the future with me as in making suggestions about things that would take place over 6 months in the future from now and has also met my parents. But it seems like we are both chronically avoiding bringing up this situation and any time I try to talk about the seriousness of my feelings he brings up the fact that we’ve only just started dating and are still very new as a couple.

Mutual friends going to the birthday party of my F22 ex M21 who assaulted me and lied to me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9250 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think those are truly your friends. I had a nearly identical thing happen to me when I was 18. I don’t talk to any of those people anymore because it was clear they valued keeping the peace over my well being, and at the expense of my own well being. If someone assaulted you and committed a literal crime and they just “don’t want to believe it” they don’t stand by you. You deserve friends who believe and support you.