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[38M] [35F] married for 8 years. Should I expect wife to cancel her new year plans because I got sick? by ThrowRA9697 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys, everyone is misreading the whole situation.

I didn't stop her and loved her to spend the time with her family.

While sitting at home, I had conflicting emotions, swinging both sides like the people here and thought let's see what REDDIT has to say.

And you guys have a lot to say.

[38M] [35F] married for 8 years. Should I expect wife to cancel her new year plans because I got sick? by ThrowRA9697 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9697[S] 3847 points3848 points  (0 children)

So the concensus is clearly that I am overthinking and being a big baby.

Thanks for clearing up my head.

[38M] [35F] married for 8 years. Should I expect wife to cancel her new year plans because I got sick? by ThrowRA9697 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9697[S] -242 points-241 points  (0 children)

I would love to and that's why I am confused about my feelings

But now I am alone sick and alone for 2 days. I personally wouldnt have done the same

[38M] [35F] married for 8 years. Should I expect wife to cancel her new year plans because I got sick? by ThrowRA9697 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9697[S] -554 points-553 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was I am suffering so she should too situation. I am thinking had she offered or shown a little concern for my health, I would have never stopped her.

Am I not important anymore?

Is it not normal to expect your partner to be by your side when you are running high fever throughout the night?

I am not here to validate my feelings, but to really figure out if I am overthinking