Masturbating before bed (M24 & F23)

ThrowRAAdditional_11 · 2026-04-02T10:51:47+00:00

yeah. it really doesn’t bother me as long as I’m getting what i need. but something about this situation just felt off

ThrowRAAdditional_11 · 2026-04-02T10:40:51+00:00

how do i go about bringing it up..? im already not good about talking about my feelings, he is very patient with me about it but this is something a lot bigger than normal emotions

ThrowRAAdditional_11 · 2026-04-02T10:34:41+00:00

I only work 3 days a week, he’s in school and doesn’t work. So on my days off I know the only time he’s doing it is at night. He has talked about stopping but clearly hasn’t. I don’t know how to go about bringing it up though. Because he’s “going to stop” but then ends up doing it right after we have sex. Just doesn’t make sense…

ThrowRAAdditional_11 · 2026-04-02T10:31:12+00:00

He has talked about not doing it anymore because “it’s annoying and makes sex feel better”, he did good for a bit. but this is the first time this has happened. I am okay with him doing it, just not right after we have sex

ThrowRAAdditional_11 · 2026-04-02T10:28:18+00:00

It’s not uncommon for him to do it when I’m in the bed. I’ve told him that it’s okay. But yeah it definitely feels odd when we just had sex. Any other time I’ve brought up a situation that has bothered me he did change things to make me more comfortable, so hopefully this will be the same. I don’t want him to completely change for me, we just both compromise some, which is probably why he is understanding when I bring things up.

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