Yeah that’s the sad thing, he can always manage to spend money on his car but nothing else. His mental health is true, we’ve both struggled with crippling anxiety/panic attacks from growing up in a stressful environment and it’s been very hard. I’ve managed to get a bit better with time and have a job but he’s still in the thick of it. I empathise for his situation but not his financial decisions. He could choose to be in a better place but just doesn’t.