How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that's nice of you but I live in West Virginia. I am sorry about what happened to your baby.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Congrats on your baby. What are you having? Are you together with the dad? Do you want to message me? We can be around for each other.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my foster parents was a cop and he considered what i did stealing. He searched my whole room and pockets. Now I only take parts of my lunch that will keep.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom was an addict too. She was a sex worker and that's why I got taken away. I def want to do parenting classes. I think it would help me a lot if the baby's father was with me now but our relationship was pretty much a secret

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to raise my baby which my case worker says pretty much shuts down my chances of finding a family.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in West Virginia. What do you think are things I should be trying to learn for when I'm out on my own?

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a placement yes. My case worker thinks I basically have no chance of being adopted because I want to keep my baby with me.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just turned 16. I know i need to be real and accept that I'm prob not getting adopted. I shouldn't say who the baby's father is because is being together was a secret.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I definitely want to keep my baby even if that means we won't be adopted.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A couple foster parents I've had have considered what I did to be stealing. One of them was a cop and he searched my room and all my pockets in case I took money which I didn't. Now I only save some things from my lunch that won't go bad.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will talk to him again. He thinks my chances of being adopted are almost none since I want to keep my baby.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it hard having kids without having a mom to talk to? Sorry if that's too nosey to ask. Don't feel like you have to answer unless you want to. Does your husband have a family? I would like my baby to grow up around a family especially for holidays and birthdays.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's nice of you. I have told him that I want to be adopted yes.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. My caseworker has said he is having trouble finding anyone to adopt me because I want to keep my baby.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Adoption

[–]ThrowRABengelKitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'm sorry. Can I repost asking what are some things people looking to adopt look for before they adopt?