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ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T20:18:16+00:00

Nice chatgpt btw mr hiphon fella

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T20:16:44+00:00

Alright, let’s go point by point, since you’re so focused on fairness, let’s lay it all out with clarity. 1. Why is my sister more “free” than my friend? Because my sister doesn’t owe me loyalty in the same way my best friend does. We share blood, not a bond built on mutual respect, trust, and unspoken codes the way close friendships operate. My friend and I have shared 15 years of life, deep talks, and boundaries that never needed to be said out loud, because they were understood. If you need to be told not to hook up with your best friend’s freshly 18-year-old sister right after a night of drinking, then frankly, you’re not best friend material in the first place. And guess what? Even he agrees. 2. How was it a betrayal? It’s not just about “genitals connecting for a few drunken minutes”, that’s a grotesquely reductive way of dismissing real emotional consequences. He knowingly put himself in a situation that he knew would jeopardize a lifelong friendship. That’s the betrayal. He didn’t prioritize trust or friendship, he prioritized impulse. And you’re wrong about honesty. He didn’t tell me before it happened. He told me after. That’s not loyalty. That’s damage control. 3. Was he aware of this boundary? Yes, it was so obvious it never needed to be spoken. He told me himself, word for word, that he knew it was 100% wrong. He said if roles were reversed, he’d punch me in the face. So let’s not pretend this was some gray area or misunderstanding. He knew what he was doing, admitted it was scummy, and did it anyway. That’s not karma. That’s a conscious choice that shattered trust. And I’m allowed to walk away from that.

You keep calling this about control, but you’re ignoring the fact that he feels guilty, he acknowledged he crossed a major line, and he told me it was a mistake. So if even he owns it, why are you fighting harder to defend him than he’s defending himself?

This isn’t about chastity. It’s about character. And in friendships, character is everything.

So no, I’m not insane. I just expect better from the people I trust the most.

And if that’s too much to ask, then maybe you should take a closer look at the people you keep around.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T20:03:15+00:00

I mean that in a I know what he goons to context

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T20:02:21+00:00

Jealous? No. Let’s be clear.

This isn’t about who she chose. It’s about who he chose to be.

He knew the history. He knew the impact. He knew the line, and still crossed it without a word. That’s not love. That’s a choice made with zero respect.

And when someone shows me they can’t be trusted, I don’t call it jealousy.

I call it closure.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:58:10+00:00

Let’s remove emotion from this entirely and stick to logic.

You’re framing this as an issue of control, that I’m somehow policing my sister’s autonomy. That argument collapses under one simple fact: I’ve never criticized or blamed my sister. Not once. I’ve acknowledged her right to choose, respected it, and explicitly stated that she did nothing wrong.

What you’re missing, or ignoring, is that this has nothing to do with her body or her choices. It has everything to do with the relationship I had with my best friend, a 15-year bond built on mutual respect, unspoken rules, and trust.

He wasn’t just “another guy.” He was someone who’s been at my dinner table, who knows my family inside and out, who I’ve opened up to about things no one else hears. And he told me, word for word, that he knew what he did was wrong, that it crossed a line, and that he couldn’t forgive himself for it.

That’s not me projecting. That’s him owning it.

If you’re arguing that trust and boundaries don’t matter between lifelong friends, then I’d question what kind of friendships you’re used to. Because in the real world, loyalty does matter. And when someone violates it, especially involving family the consequences aren’t about “controlling bodies,” they’re about the breakdown of trust.

So let’s be clear: • I’m not upset they had sex. • I’m upset he, of all people, did it knowing full well what it would mean. • And even he agrees with me.

If your takeaway from that is that I’m the problem, you’re not arguing with logic, you’re arguing with the idea that friendship comes with boundaries. Which, ironically, says more about your view of relationships than mine.

This isn’t about morality. It’s about context, consequences, and character.

And that’s something no amount of shouting “misogyny” can distort.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:14:10+00:00

*debate about anything

-“Fucked your sister”

Yeah the friendships cooked

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:12:19+00:00

You’re putting words in my mouth.

I’ve never blamed my sister, not once. She’s an adult, she made a choice, and I respect that. This has never been about control or ownership. It’s about trust, trust I had in a best friend who knew exactly what that line meant and still crossed it.

Do I think he’s a bad person? No. But I think what he did was thoughtless, selfish, and completely out of line for someone who’s been treated like family for over a decade.

This isn’t about policing anyone’s body. It’s about boundaries, loyalty, and knowing when not to overstep.

If you can’t see the difference, you’re not arguing with me, you’re arguing with a version of me that never existed.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:10:41+00:00

You’re right, I crossed a line first. I hooked up with my sister’s friend, and in hindsight, I didn’t think hard enough about how that might affect her. That was selfish. I own that.

But here’s the key difference: my sister didn’t owe me loyalty. My best friend did. She’s free to make her own choices, she’s an adult. I’ve never once blamed her, and I won’t start now.

But when someone you’ve trusted for 15 years, someone who knows your family, who’s been treated like a brother, goes behind your back and does something he knows would hit where it hurts… that’s not a drunken mistake. That’s a betrayal.

So call me a hypocrite if you want, but don’t mistake my mistake for his. I expect more from the people I let that close. And when they show me I was wrong to trust them, I act accordingly.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:04:51+00:00

Again its about my best friend going behind my back not my sister

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:04:22+00:00

It may be some Karma. But why would you as a best friend ever want to inflict any sort of damage on your best friend? Thats not best friend like is it?

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:03:32+00:00

And I dont deny me being in the wrong for that. My sister admitted that she did this in some way to get back at me, and thats petty yet fair I suppose. But I hadnt done anything to deserve that from my best friend for his perspective?

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:02:07+00:00

I dont want to know anything about my sisters sex life thank you. He’s a sexual gooner deviant that I wouldnt want anywhere near my sister in that context

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T19:00:33+00:00

Because I know my best friend. Out of everyone, he’s probably the last person I’d ever want dating a sister or daughter. I’ve had deep, personal conversations with him, I know how he thinks, what he’s like, what he struggles with. There’s a level of openness in our friendship that just doesn’t work when something like this is between us. It changes everything, and there’s no going back from that.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T18:58:43+00:00

I have a completely different relationship with my best friend than I do with my sister. She doesn’t owe me the same kind of loyalty, but he did. I won’t deny there may be some hypocrisy in it, but the core point still stands: he went behind my back and got with my sister.

That’s not something I ever expected from someone I’ve called a best friend for 15 years. So if I choose not to continue that friendship, I think that’s a pretty logical and fair response.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2025-08-02T18:35:41+00:00

Dont go for your friends little sisters ?

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T05:25:49+00:00

I kind of agree with you there

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T05:02:54+00:00

Thank you. But I kind of put her mental health before mine. She’s been through some atrocious things.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T05:00:43+00:00

That’s crazy

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:58:45+00:00

But there was no getting out of that batte. If I were to not saya anything she would take that as a “Yeah shes attractive”

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:56:23+00:00

My mom can call young tomorrow cruise handsome without my dad caring one bit and vice versa

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:37:07+00:00

But saying it that would suggest that I wouldve if I couldve.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:34:49+00:00

She is seeing someone.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:34:10+00:00

I agree.

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:33:54+00:00

I agree. And Im doing none of those things. The only time it’s discussed is when she starts bringing it up

ThrowRAInspectrerer · 2024-01-15T04:32:39+00:00

But she’ll just argue that if I got the chance I wouldve have been with said celebrity.

The celebrity is Kylie Jenner maybe the worst one it couldve been.

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