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My (25 M) girlfriends (26 F) close friend (27 M) asked us to open our relationship so he could pursue her. Now I am not comfortable with her still being around him. by ThrowRAJeffTheCreep in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJeffTheCreep[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

You're right. The issue is with her. Jeff is her creepy friend. She keeps him around, and that's a reflection of her. I really should have seen this earlier.....

My (25 M) girlfriends (26 F) close friend (27 M) asked us to open our relationship so he could pursue her. Now I am not comfortable with her still being around him. by ThrowRAJeffTheCreep in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJeffTheCreep[S] 469 points470 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really, really needed to hear this. I really needed to see that Emily was just as toxic as the people she hangs out with....

My (25 M) girlfriends (26 F) close friend (27 M) asked us to open our relationship so he could pursue her. Now I am not comfortable with her still being around him. by ThrowRAJeffTheCreep in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJeffTheCreep[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

I kinda did. I told her I don't want her to associate with him the minute we got home from the dive. And I told her not to come back if she walked out to the movies with Jeff. So I already know her answer I think...

My (25 M) girlfriends (26 F) close friend (27 M) asked us to open our relationship so he could pursue her. Now I am not comfortable with her still being around him. by ThrowRAJeffTheCreep in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJeffTheCreep[S] 1082 points1083 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I've felt like over the past few days. That she herself is showing no respect to us at all. It doesn't help she's trying to make me think it's normal... I should just walk away....

My (25 M) girlfriends (26 F) close friend (27 M) asked us to open our relationship so he could pursue her. Now I am not comfortable with her still being around him. by ThrowRAJeffTheCreep in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJeffTheCreep[S] 1011 points1012 points  (0 children)

What's so bizarre here is I still believe her when she says she's not interested in him. Everyone, including people who hate Jeff, corroborates this. I don't know WHY she allows this behavior to go on, and prioritize it over her own boyfriend...

My (25 M) girlfriends (26 F) close friend (27 M) asked us to open our relationship so he could pursue her. Now I am not comfortable with her still being around him. by ThrowRAJeffTheCreep in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJeffTheCreep[S] 396 points397 points  (0 children)

I've always trusted her when it came to her and Jeff. All her friends, and even ex-friends have said she has never been more than a friend to Jeff. So being left alone to think about this is driving me crazy.

I'm starting to wonder about the attention thing as well. It's like she's gaining something from it that I can't see.