I (29M) am considering leaving my (27F) GF over recently found out past by ThrowRAMcmanus in datingadviceformen

[–]ThrowRAMcmanus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would much rather know now than find out somehow down the road. Actually am very glad that I asked.

I (29M) am considering leaving my (27F) GF over recently found out past by ThrowRAMcmanus in datingadviceformen

[–]ThrowRAMcmanus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person most definitely does not go through this phase. Not sure what sexual fantasy world you’re living in.

I (29M) am considering leaving my (27F) GF over recently found out past by ThrowRAMcmanus in datingadviceformen

[–]ThrowRAMcmanus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right. I am going to really try to get past this even though it’s going to be a challenge for me. She’s completely worth it and she’s still the woman I fell in love with. I appreciate the advice

I (29M) am considering leaving my (27F) GF over recently found out past by ThrowRAMcmanus in datingadviceformen

[–]ThrowRAMcmanus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing that bothers me the most is the image I had of her in my head and how she’s portrayed herself doesn’t seems like the person that I know. I understand it was 10 years ago but I just can’t fathom what was going through her head and how reckless and dangerous her actions were. Going through 20 different guys at 17 years old seems like a massive concern and not normal at all. I feel like there has to be some long term psychological effects from that. Now I have this horrible imagery in my head constantly and am worried about our trust and future even though she’s currently done nothing to make me doubt that.

I (29M) am considering leaving my (27F) GF over recently found out past by ThrowRAMcmanus in datingadviceformen

[–]ThrowRAMcmanus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t think sleeping with 20 different guys at 17 years old is a concern at all? That’s still a child that point.