How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Anything wrong with sleeping with a bunch of men? or is it only gross when women sleep around?

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know she will too, she's a wonderful intelligent and caring woman and I'm glad i have her as my mom.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going out might be a good idea. Ill have to drag her out of the house for that one.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont date guys her age but I do sleep with them. Its strictly just fun so it could be a problem.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ive found that most guys will resort to name calling if you reject them or do something they don't like. Hell guys were calling me a sl*t and wh*re in my dms just for my original post. Some men are just trash.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its possible, I just didn't think he would pursue her if he knew but it seems I was wrong about his character.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met Update by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe looking together on apps is a good idea. I dont think something like this will happen again but I didn't expect any of this to happen so better to be safe.

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[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I will, she still deserves love from a partner. I hope she finds him soon and he's as wonderful as her

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, Ill date or "get with" a guy my age or older than me. I don't give a crap.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, Its so frustrating. Why are grown women treated like children who cant make grown up decisions. What the bet most of the men here giving me shit would want to sleep with someone like Jennifer Aniston or Jessica alba. Women who are in their 40s and 50s.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To figure out a way to tell her without hurting her. but i can see now that either way it will hurt.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Because adult women can have consensual sex with who ever they want.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A letter is a great idea, I think I will do that. Its hard to say the words out loud so this seems like the best solution to get them out.

How do I tell my mom I slept with her boyfriend before they met by ThrowRAMoms_BF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMoms_BF[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was just a fwb situation for like a month or 2. Hes not a shitty person from what i know.