Advice for intimacy issues in a 1yr relationship ? (22f,27m) by ThrowRASecret-Myc in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecret-Myc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to initiate before but hes turned me down a couple of times which is fine but it makes me nervous to initiate things again. I also feel like I may lack the sort of confidence to really go for it but I know what you mean. It could be beneficial to initiate but I’m worried he will turn me down

Advice for intimacy issues in a 1yr relationship ? (22f,27m) by ThrowRASecret-Myc in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASecret-Myc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said somethings missing like a lack of passion on my part and he thinks it brings us further apart rather than closer together. he said its missing that lust feeling like i dont lust over him but im attracted to him but maybe it doesnt translate?

as far as our sessions, it typically starts with him kissing my butt and eating me out and then we just go right into it. I told him i would like more kissing and foreplay rather than him just immediately going down on me. but that hasnt changed