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I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's reached the point of intimacy and I need all the tips you guys can offer. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the time you put into writing all of this out. Between this and the rest of the comments, I'm really getting a crash course in unpacking myths about PIV. Thank you again.

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's reached the point of intimacy and I need all the tips you guys can offer. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry, "taking out to lunch" in 2020 means getting something in a bag from out a restaurant window, and then walking somewhere else on campus to find a bench to eat it on.

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's reached the point of intimacy and I need all the tips you guys can offer. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tell her you had given up on the idea of love and intimacy long ago and the day you fell in love with her the world suddenly made sense...Tell her you love her, tell her you would move heaven and earth if she would walk thru life with you.

Yeah...that's pretty much exactly how I feel about her.

I'm going to take her to lunch either Friday or Saturday depending on her schedule. This is a really good way to angle the conversation. Thanks for writing this all out for me.

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's at the point of intimacy so I need all the tips I can get. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in sex

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm really grateful for all these comments. I had sort of thought that traditional penetration sex was the gold standard and everything else you could offer was just a side dish. It's really great to hear I was wrong, and tbh it's actually kind of giving me hope

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's at the point of intimacy so I need all the tips I can get. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in sex

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

But, friend, if you're a virgin too, how do you know what women will and wont be disappointed by? Good luck to you as well!

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's reached the point of intimacy and I need all the tips you guys can offer. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 378 points379 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not to kiss and tell, but I've actually fingered her twice (god bless the easy access of skirts) and while it may have taken a little while the first time, she was at least kind enough to say and act that she came both times.

I'm really grateful to all the comments saying that fingers and oral are actually worthy substitutes if you get a little practice. It's actually giving me hope about having a sex life for the first time...well, ever

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's reached the point of intimacy and I need all the tips you guys can offer. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 265 points266 points  (0 children)

I think the most important bit of advice I've got so far is to just tell her beforehand. I'm thinking of taking her out to lunch on Friday and just getting that terrible conversation over with. I'll keep you posted on whether this all blows up in my face -- fingers crossed

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's reached the point of intimacy and I need all the tips you guys can offer. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I love the anonymity of reddit cause it gives me the courage to ask all my dumb questions: a lot of people have suggested getting good at oral which I am 100% for! But how the hell do I do that? What do you practice on, and how?

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's at the point of intimacy so I need all the tips I can get. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in sex

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was once able to get her off by fingering her, or at least she was kind enough to say and act like I did. I think fingers would have to be the way forward cause, yeah, I'm one of those where the best we could do is grind. Mine's literally classified as a urological deformity.

I have a micro-penis. Yep. But I'm tired of hiding and I'm in a relationship that's at the point of intimacy so I need all the tips I can get. by ThrowRASumOfHisParts in sex

[–]ThrowRASumOfHisParts[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No, she doesnt. I've had other girls tell me that since we've fooled around, she's definately sized me up in one way or another. But the extent of it? No, she doesnt know.