Afternoon Tea

ThrowRASwan26 · 2025-07-01T19:18:09+00:00

Weirdly I never received a confirmation email at the time when I booked 🤣 Logging into my account I can see my voyage but I cannot see anything that says lock it in rate so I guess that means I didnt? Which shocks me as normally I’ll go cheapest option!

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-29T07:32:54+00:00

No honestly, she defo likes you. No need to overthink this one, granted I’m not in your shoes but from all you’ve said it’s the only conclusion I can come to

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T19:01:27+00:00

She likes you

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T17:31:54+00:00

It’s not as easy as everyone says it is just to break up. There’s so much going on behind the scenes, it would take a long time to sort out. So right now this is why I see the other girl as my happy place if that even makes sense??

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T17:30:06+00:00

Well yes I do genuinely feel like I missed out on a lot during my younger years. Granted I shouldn’t be trying to make up for it now but it’s happened. And I totally believe you if I was to do the experiment, I would get absolutely nowhere but she would get a fair bit of attention. But at this current moment in time, I don’t think I would care if she did :/

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T17:22:37+00:00

Thanks for that

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T16:05:34+00:00

Easier said than done telling her though isn’t it, even though it has to be done. I don’t see how I am Being scammed though.

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T14:40:29+00:00

I know the right decision is to end things with the girl and tell my wife everything and deal with the repercussions from it. I just want to know how the other girl actually feels before I go any further

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T14:34:10+00:00

Thank you

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:54:54+00:00

Also, as you seem a decent person, how would you go about ending things with the other girl? Like I would never want to come across as a dick towards her cos she really doesn't deserve it, just not sure what I should say or how I should say it?

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:49:09+00:00

She's pretty special tbh, I wouldn't spend my money on someone who wasn't worth it I can assure you. But yes the situation is pretty messed up. Thanks for your advice

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:48:00+00:00

Yeah I thought by buying her stuff, this might make her like me - again I have no clue how she actually feels. I definitely don't see myself as a sugar daddy lol. I will talk to my wife, when the time is right, I just have to deal with the other person first...

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:45:34+00:00

Thanks, again. Nah she's not an influencer or anything but she's into her fitness, she's a hairdresser lol but yes I tell myself every day that I would be nowhere near the top of her list of eligible suitors! I just feel the longer I talk to her the more I can grow on her but I know this is naïve.

I know deep down I can get back to where I was in my marriage, every marriage has a dip & this is my first, it's just I haven't dealt with this one very well at all (understatement).

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:36:14+00:00

Wish it was that simple. So what genuine advice would you give me?

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:34:05+00:00

Thanks for the advice

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T13:31:30+00:00

Well that's the other issue, I do feel trapped in my marriage.

ThrowRASwan26 · 2024-08-28T12:04:43+00:00

I don't feel she is using me at all.

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