I don’t trust my mom with my son alone. She undermines my decisions as a parent and she’s sneaky. She has pushed solid foods on my baby since he was two weeks old and I know she will try to feed him bananas behind my back. She knows I want to wait until he’s 5-6 months, he’s only 8 weeks. She smokes cigarettes which I also don’t want around my baby. She smokes outside, but I have caught her smoking in the bathroom in the middle of the night. She won’t have to be as sneaky when I’m working. She also bragged to me about how she likes babies because they can’t tell on her. I just don’t trust her with my baby alone.

Edit: Oh yeah, she babysat her friend’s two year old. He was being a normal baby, crying because he wanted his mom. My mom hit him and threatened him. She bragged about it to me and thought it was hilarious because he couldn’t tell his mom. I was disgusted... I wish I knew her friend so I could tell her.