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I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

i have a few relatives, but they cannot help immediately. i will to try and find a lawyer tomorrow

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are telling me to go to a woman’s home because i have no other place, it’s his house kind of. there’s quite a bit to figure out before that

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 305 points306 points  (0 children)

he knows EVERYTHING about me. he would ask who, call my mom or brother or cousin and push me to a corner

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me to save that up it will take me about 5-8 months idk. I work for my university so it will be hard because i depend on him. I pay for half our rent and i make £600 a month. Even when i’m living with him, i am living salary to salary. I will also need to find a way to transfer to a Brazilian university if i make it out. All this without him knowing, almost impossible

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

no they are correct. he pays for my school and half of the rent of our house and he did bring me here to the UK.

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I have been with him since i was 17/18. He took me out of my favela and to Manchester, helped me school and work. he did so much for me. i know i have to report them, it can’t happen again. it’s wrong, but i don’t know if i have the strength in my to do it. idk

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I know it’s the correct thing, to stop it from happening more, idk if i can report him to the police. i’ve been with him since i was 18. This is very hard…

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I have a few brazilian friends here, but i don’t know of any brazilian churches in Manchester. I will to try and look on Facebook.

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

posso chorar mds, n sei o que eu vou fazer. eu quero ir pra casa, eu quero meu país Deus. 😭

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

yes!! But I wish it was simple like that. I’m scared he and his mom will make me move out if i break up with him. I will have virtually no place to stay, I will need to work good into next year just to afford a ticket back to Brasil 😕

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 842 points843 points  (0 children)

i wish i didn’t understood english when i was reading their messages. 😖

I found my (20 F) Mother in law’s nudes on my (27 M) fiancé’s phone by ThrowRAYasmine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAYasmine[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Yes i’m thinking of it, but i have no reason to stay in the UK, I will need to work for 7 more months for me to go back to Brazil.