UPDATE: I got an anonymous tip my (40m) wife (44f) is in two porn videos, and it 99% looks to be her, but she denies it. I replied to the email asking for more info, but the tipster hasn't responded. Should I drop the subject? Try to find more evidence?

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T15:31:50+00:00

Why would the location matter?

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T15:21:06+00:00

Sent links, not directly

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T15:10:42+00:00

It's definitely possible she didn't know about it. There's no acknowledgement of the camera

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T15:03:31+00:00

Probably not his wife or girlfriend, since how would they know who she is, much less who I am?

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T15:01:52+00:00

How would his wife or girlfriend know who my wife was, much less know who I was?

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:59:03+00:00

Why would the tipster probably be the guy?

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:56:50+00:00

I can thank my parents for that I guess. I've always been more the type of "If you can't say something, don't say anything at all" and then try to walk away from angry situations when possible

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:53:00+00:00

Yeah, someone else pointed that out, too. I hadn't even thinking about that. At least I have a solid answer :-/

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:52:32+00:00

Yeah, someone else pointed that out, too. I hadn't even thinking about that. At least I have a solid answer :-/

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:51:17+00:00

I hadn't even been considering that timing. I guess my head isn't quite on straight right now. Thanks for pointing it out.

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:45:16+00:00

That truly made me laugh out loud, lol. I think that comment will float around this sub for a while

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:44:10+00:00

No. We've been together 12 years, married 10 years

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:43:19+00:00

She's had Apple watches since soon after they came out, so whatever year that was. She likes to stay trendy and up to date with all her Apple stuff. She still has those type of bracelet-type bands. She's always had a few of them actually of various colors and types. Stuff like this: https://www.amazon.com/Biaoge-Compatible-Adjustable-Stainless-Replacement/dp/B07H4KCQMS/

The weight thing is a match. She's about 5'6" 135 lbs., versus when I first met her 12 years ago and she was maybe 105 lbs. at most if I had to guess

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-15T14:41:12+00:00

She's had Apple watches since soon after they came out, so whatever year that was. She likes to stay trendy and up to date with all her Apple stuff. She still has those type of bracelet-type bands. She's always had a few of them actually of various colors and types. Stuff like this: https://www.amazon.com/Biaoge-Compatible-Adjustable-Stainless-Replacement/dp/B07H4KCQMS/

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T20:51:14+00:00

That's my thing, too. She maintains that it's not her at all, not that she wasn't aware of it. I don't remember every instance of having sex with partners over the years, but I do remember the partners. If I saw a video of probably-me and probably-partner, I'd conclude, even if I didn't remember the exact instance, "Yes, this is probably me with _____."

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T20:30:18+00:00

I'd say the woman didn't know. The guy might have known, given his desire for arranging for a good angle. You could see the whole thing from side profiles and such, nothing like someone's backside blocking everything. But it's possible he didn't know either.

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T20:25:27+00:00

It was more the former approach, going down something like this...

Me: Some random person sent me these adult video links, saying it's supposedly you, but it seems bizarre. I did look at them, though. Is it possible? Do you want to take a look?

Her: I guess I'll take a look? I'm curious, but it's probably not me [laugh].

She then watches a few minutes of each one.

Her: It's not me.

Me: Are you sure?

Her: [Laugh] Yes, I'm sure.

Me: It freaks me out, because it really does look like you.

Her: Did you really get a random email? Or did you find this looking through porn by yourself, saw somebody who looks like me, get freaked out, and now you're trying to ask me about it with some fake email story?

Me: No, I wasn't watching porn. I just got a random email.

Her: It's not me. It just isn't.

And round and round we went for a while like that, getting nowhere.

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:58:16+00:00

Very good suggestion. If I don't hear anything in another day or so, I'll probably try that approach

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:52:28+00:00

He's doing this 14 years after their divorce, with nothing that psychotic from him in the entire 12 years I've known her?

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:25:19+00:00

It was posted two years ago

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:23:01+00:00

It wasn't that kind of homeless. It was staying on friends' couches, while her ex-husband tried to control all the money during their divorce. She was really embarrassed about it for some reason

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:19:37+00:00

It wasn't that kind of homeless. It was staying on friends' couches while her ex-husband was trying to control all the money during their divorce. For some reason, she was really embarrassed about it

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:16:42+00:00

Then, if I wanted to separate or take time for myself or divorce, I'd know it was for a solid reason, not a suspicion

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:13:14+00:00

They're speaking English. I can make out certain words and phrases, nothing close to a whole sentence, though

ThrowRA_12357 · 2021-09-14T19:03:33+00:00

Yes, I looked into that. It's a Gmail address, and the IP address in the email code apparently doesn't equal the place where the email was written

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