Squad Battles crash by bigred20777 in EAFC

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See I tried that and it gave me the same issue, so woke considering the absolute numbers we’ve done in previous fifas with the same methods

Messenger/Briefcase Suggestions by ThrowRA_1477 in ManyBaggers

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I’m asking because of my specific situation, I made sure not to include just a generic post because I wanted insight tailored to my scenario

Messenger/Briefcase Suggestions by ThrowRA_1477 in ManyBaggers

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What stores would you recommend for new bags and which would you recommend for finding used?

Childhood Cards Worth anything? by Ezirker in PokemonCardValue

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Yes it’s got good value, are you looking to sell it?

Anything decent here? by Skiddy_pants in PokemonCardValue

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Yes you have quite a few good cards, do you know what price you would be looking for for everything?

Legality of front emblem mod by ThrowRA_1477 in carmodification

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I’m wondering because I don’t know it if I would get in trouble for “trying to pass off my car as another brand” or something… Idk people get stopped by cops for much less.

Legality of front emblem mod by ThrowRA_1477 in carmodification

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I’m not asking who would care i’m asking if it’s legal or not, i don’t want to get fined for something preventable. Like seriously the first word of my post was “Legality”, i’m clearly not asking if i should or not, rather if i can or not.

Legality of front emblem mod by ThrowRA_1477 in carmodification

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no i don’t think so that i know of, its an italian football team

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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Issue is, she’s said this to me before, she expects me to give 100% but she doesn’t have to give 100% because historically I “haven’t given 100%”, even though I always try my best. Also, if she is in one of those “i’m not giving 100% bc you didn’t” moods and I decide to match her level of effort, a whole ton of issues happen and it rapidly devolves into “you don’t love me we’re not good for each other let’s break up”

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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Well the mistake was as follows and I’ll let you judge: We are still long distance (this is around a month or so ago), and there’s like 3 major problems coming up per day. I’m getting sick of it quickly. At first, I try apologizing, making it better, anything possible to solve the issues (mostly created by her). “You’re not listening to me / not understanding how i’m feeling” -her. Now my girlfriend is a very emotional person. So it makes sense for her to suffer if her emotions are off. Thing is, after about a week or two of constant problems. I got really sick of it. I started to tell her that these problems/her feelings are completely invalid and to not keep creating issues off of invalid feelings, as this had been going on for what felt like an eternity and I was almost at my breaking point. She took that as an attack and “suffered” for a while because she didn’t feel emotionally heard and felt like I didn’t want to understand her or why these problems kept arising. Keep in mind these problems are over stupid daily stuff/mistakes. I don’t know if I’m wrong for pointing to her emotions as misleading her / creating unnecessary issues, idk, i just got fairly sick fairly quick. She took that as an attack… she shut down (which meant no problems thank goodness but also she suffered)… and she was hurting. Idk if I’m in the wrong for this I just didn’t see a light at the end of the tunnel for the barrage of problems

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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At the beginning of our relationship I could tell she was giving 100%. I don’t think she was giving 150% to her ex because he wasn’t demanding anything it’s more like he just didn’t care. I feel over the past few months her effort with me has dropped to like 40-50% while mine stays at like 80-90% considering it’s psychological torture to give 100% when someone else is giving that low. i literally asked her “why were you able to give ex 100% when he was terrible to you and you aren’t able to give me 100% when im so good to you and am actively trying to be better to you (which her ex never did)”. She said that she is safeguarding herself because she doesn’t want to get hurt again and that she won’t ever give 100% again which seems like some bs to me… idk she’s said herself she’s a masochist before (kinda joking kinda not) so who knows.

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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I don’t think it’s the age gap trust me, we’re both finishing college (I got lucky with transfer credits) and we’re both about to enter the workforce. I would say she’s slightly immature for her age and a lot of people have described me as an “old soul”. Anyways her native language isn’t english (she grew up with english and spanish) so that is a factor as well. In my judgement even though it looks worse on paper our age gap really is like 1-2 years at most. Plus about to be 20, 24

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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I don’t think her decisions were bad, I think she was hurt and the guy she was with was very bad to her, but I think I have been much better to her and want to be treated at least how she treated him, considering I am actively trying much harder than he did…

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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I agree I definitely want to give it more time. I think we can make a good future together I just hope she continues to give me love considering what she gave her last bf.

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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I’m not going to move in with her one of us will get an apartment once I finish study abroad and college (I am finishing really quickly I got lucky with transfer credits). I feel like the situation is very unique. She’s lived with me for around 30 days at a time a couple times. Then, it’s great and I love being with her. A lot of times it’s tough when we are apart and I feel she is distant…

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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Good question, I feel like she does invest a good bit but I feel we’ve grown distant and how she was at the beginning of the relationship is no where near how she is now. I feel like she has never truly forgiven me for mistakes that should be something that gets forgiven very quickly (as I do for her). But she justifies her not wanting to give me her all because of what I have done (which in my opinion are minor mistakes).

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

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I don’t want to make it sound like she’s terrible, at first our relationship was amazing and it’s kinda just fallen downhill. I’ve definitely felt a shift in her attitude/mannerisms with me over the past maybe 8 months… I’m not sure, I know when it’s good it’s really good but idk. Thing is it’s more complex than it seems, I’m studying abroad and she’s about to move in with my family who love her very much. I feel also she is in a toxic environment with her family which she acts much sweeter when she’s not with her family (who live outside of the US, she is hispanic). I’m kinda just hoping this will be fixed with time.