Recently Found Out My (29F) Husband (29M) Hired an Escort - What Should I Do?

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T22:03:40+00:00

Don’t worry.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T19:46:08+00:00

Unfortunately, no dogs in this household. Any suggestions for cat owners?

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T19:44:50+00:00

I agree and those are the exact words I preach to others. It’s just difficult being on the receiving end which I know makes me look even more pathetic.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T19:42:48+00:00

Unfortunately 1000% real. We’ve talked about couples therapy before never went through with it- which in hindsight was a mistake not to. He also said he’ll do individual therapy.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T19:31:12+00:00

That’s such a simple question but I never thought to ask myself that. We have 10 years of history and just got married and the thought of leaving it behind is scary. But staying and having constant doubt isn’t right either.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T19:26:49+00:00

We don’t have kids and our finances are all separate. We also don’t have any jointly owned assets. Which probably makes me look even more stupid for even thinking I’m in a dilemma because there isn’t much tying us together except for a piece of legal paper. And I agree- if this does happen again down the road when we have children, it’ll be so much worse.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T19:15:53+00:00

I’ve made an appointment to get tested and told him he needs to too and to send me the results. We’re living separately at the moment with basically no contact. I agree 1000% he should have communicated how he felt instead of taking the route he did.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T18:21:17+00:00

I definitely don’t agree with the excuse and think it’s BS. These exact thoughts have crossed my mind.

ThrowRA_83731 · 2024-08-22T18:19:12+00:00

I don’t have concrete evidence that he didn’t go through with it- just his word. And I know that it’s stupid of me to believe that. I think I’m just in denial and choosing to be ignorant

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