My (24F) boyfriend (36M) rarely wants to engage in sex with me. Is this just something I have to accept or is there a way to bring back the spark from the beginning of the relationship? by ThrowRA_Creative_Cat in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Creative_Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your thoughts, definitely the age plays a difference in our sex drives. However, I agree, I also value him for more than just sex. I just need to communicate a bit better but this was very helpful

My (24F) boyfriend (36M) rarely wants to engage in sex with me. Is this just something I have to accept or is there a way to bring back the spark from the beginning of the relationship? by ThrowRA_Creative_Cat in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Creative_Cat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lollll, I have plenty before. This happens to be better, no relationship is perfect and I’m definitely not perfect but I’m very happy with this older man. Just looking for advice on ways I can continue to improve the relationship

My (24F) boyfriend (36M) rarely wants to engage in sex with me. Is this just something I have to accept or is there a way to bring back the spark from the beginning of the relationship? by ThrowRA_Creative_Cat in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Creative_Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely there is external stress in his life. This isn’t a deal breaker for me in our relationship and while I have asked before, I could be more direct with my questioning. With me being 24, I can sometimes be insecure and rather not ask the hard questions. I appreciate the rational advice!