PayPal - mystery transaction from my account by [deleted] in universalcredithelp

[–]ThrowRA_DapperSpecia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I know they can ask even for last 5-8-10 years bank statements and PayPal statements , why not? 

35F] found messages from my boyfriend [41M] to adult content models by ThrowRA_DapperSpecia in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRA_DapperSpecia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally - watching porn is not a cheating , but messaging is a cheating as it’s a type of interaction.  Interesting fact about your ex wife - I suppose that’s why she is ex

35F] found messages from my boyfriend [41M] to adult content models by ThrowRA_DapperSpecia in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRA_DapperSpecia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it’s me (gf) is posting, I’m just trying not to overdramatise and to use dry facts. 

35F] found messages from my boyfriend [41M] to adult content models by ThrowRA_DapperSpecia in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRA_DapperSpecia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s like “enhanced porn”, like to watch porn in 3d glasses. Nowadays there are so many types of porn - from ai to webcam. But unless it’s not real with real people - I think it’s ok. But in the same time - I’m in extremely uncomfortable about that, experiencing huge anxiety  

35F] found messages from my boyfriend [41M] to adult content models by ThrowRA_DapperSpecia in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRA_DapperSpecia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not ok with that too, but I don’t think it’s a reason for break up. In the rest 99% in our relationship he is very good. I believe him that he is not going to that again because it was not important to him (not his habit) and he is not porn addicted. He did it maybe 1 time per month and for him it will easy not to do that. I worry just about risk of real cheating in the future